Sexpert reveals very simple ways to tell if your partner is faking their orgasm

According to a leading model turned relationship coach, women who fake orgasms to keep their man happy could be in trouble if he finds out.

Cover girl and self-styled orgasm expert Katie Flowers claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man, but warns that dishonesty in the bedroom undermines the trust that builds a long-term relationship.

And while they may think their acting skills are sufficient, they may be fooling themselves if they think they can keep their partner in the dark because the signs are easy to spot.

“Don’t underestimate the power of your intuition,” the sex expert advises men. “If something doesn’t feel good, it probably is.”

She also works as a relationship expert and has brought hundreds of couples together

Studies show that three-quarters of heterosexual women have faked an orgasm at least once, while 20 percent do so regularly.

And Flowers believes that theatrical moans, screams and shouts are not the signs of success that men should look for.

Red cheeks, smiles and eye contact are probably a much more reliable guide.

“True fun is characterized by authenticity and spontaneity,” she told the newspaper New York Post.

Research shows that three-quarters of straight women have simulated an orgasm at least once

“Look for cues that indicate a natural and unscripted experience.”

“At the core of every meaningful relationship lies a foundation of honesty and vulnerability,” she added. ‘Fake orgasms not only erode this foundation, but also perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and dissatisfaction.’

A 2022 study at the University of South Florida found that women who make more money than male partners are twice as likely to fake an orgasm in the bedroom.

The research, published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, found that the more women perceived their partner’s sense of masculinity as vulnerable, the more anxiety and communication problems they experienced.

And that, in turn, predicted lower numbers of orgasms and sexual satisfaction.

But some scientists have found evidence to support the “fake it till you make it” idea, including Dr. Michael Barnett of the University of Texas.

His 2019 study found that reenacting the build-up to a real orgasm, with faster breathing, sounds and hip movements, can push women ‘over the threshold’.

But he discovered that faking doesn’t work if it’s done only to appease the male ego.

And men themselves are of course no further than a little imitation; in a Canadian study, a quarter of men admitted to faking their own orgasms.

Flowers advises that straight forward communication and honesty is the best way to maximize everyone’s satisfaction in the bedroom

“True intimacy is about connection, not performance,” she advised

But Flowers advises that simple communication and honesty is the best way to maximize everyone’s satisfaction in the bedroom.

“True intimacy is about connection, not performance,” she said.

“Focus on building a deeper connection with your partner and enjoying the shared experience.

“Knowledge is power, and understanding the complexities of human sexuality can help you navigate intimate encounters with confidence.”