Eva Mendes admits she and Ryan Gosling had a ‘non-verbal agreement’ about her being a stay-at-home mom as she makes rare comments about her relationship with Barbie actor

Eva Mendes has revealed that she and Ryan Gosling had something of a ‘non-verbal agreement’ when it came to giving up acting and being a ‘full-time mother’ to their two young daughters.

Eva, 50, and Ryan, 43, are parents to Esmeralda Amada, nine, and Amada Lee, seven, and although the Canadian actor has continued to make films since welcoming his children, Eva has taken a back seat and hasn’t been in played a movie. film for ten years.

During an appearance on Today on Tuesday morning, Eva was asked what it was like to go from acting to full-time parent, to which she replied, “It was a no-brainer. I’ve been so lucky, and I thought, if I can have this time with my kids… and I’m still working, I just haven’t been acting, because acting takes you to locations, it takes you.”

Referring to her partner of 13 years, Eva continued, “It was almost like a non-verbal agreement that it was like, ‘Okay, he’s going to work and I’m going to work, I’m just going to work here. “‘

Eva Mendes has revealed that she and Ryan Gosling had a ‘non-verbal agreement’ when it came to her being a ‘full-time mother’ to their children. In the photo 2012

The 50-year-old actress made rare comments about her family life during an appearance on Today on Tuesday

The 50-year-old actress made rare comments about her family life during an appearance on Today on Tuesday

Ryan and Eva met when they starred in the 2012 film The Place Beyond The Pines

Ryan and Eva met when they starred in the 2012 film The Place Beyond The Pines

The couple, pictured here in March 2013, no longer attend red carpet events together

The couple, pictured here in March 2013, no longer attend red carpet events together

Eva and Ryan met when they starred opposite each other in the 2012 film The Place Beyond the Pines, and she explained that she “pretty much quit acting after that.”

‘I’ve never experienced anything like this before. The way he works, his dedication to his craft, how he wants to make everything the best it can be, and that means making his fellow players the best they can be. But unfortunately – or fortunately – there is only one Ryan!’ she said.

Eva then shared her thoughts on Ryan’s memorable performance of the hit Barbie song I’m Just Ken at this year’s Academy Awards, where he took to the stage with Mark Ronson and Guns N’ Roses guitarist Slash.

“He went and did his job. He just happened to be really good at his job, and he did it and he came home,” she said, before explaining her hilarious Instagram post in which she told Ryan to “come home” to “put the kids to bed to bring’.

“Because that’s what it’s all about,” she said. “Go ahead, do your job as best you can and then you’ll come home.”

Ryan recently revealed how Eva and their two daughters gave him helpful ‘tips’ for his performance at the 96th Oscars.

During an interview at the SXSW Film Festival in Austin, Texas, earlier this month, he told People, “It was amazing. It was so much fun because they had come to the dress rehearsal the day before so they had a front row seat.”

“They gave me some tips and some notes, all great notes,” the La La Land star added.

“It was amazing,” Gosling told the newspaper as he talked about Mendes, 50, and their daughters Esmeralda, nine, and Amada, seven;  seen on stage at the 2024 Oscars

Eva talked about Ryan’s memorable performance of I’m Just Ken at the 96th Oscars

The actress posted a photo of her in Ryan's dressing room and told him to

The actress posted a photo of her in Ryan’s dressing room and told him to “come home” to “put the kids to bed.”

Despite not walking the red carpet with Ryan, Eva was backstage and wrote in an Instagram caption that she is 'always with my man'

Despite not walking the red carpet with Ryan, Eva was backstage and wrote in an Instagram caption that she is ‘always with my man’

La La Land star Ryan walked the carpet at the Academy Awards with his sister Mandi

La La Land star Ryan walked the carpet at the Academy Awards with his sister Mandi

“They are such a big part of this for me… it was my girls’ interest in Barbie and disinterest in Ken that got me into this in the first place. It was wonderful to have them there in the end.’

However, Eva was noticeably absent from the Oscars red carpet, with Ryan opting to have his sister Mandi as his plus one.

Eva previously spoke about why she doesn’t do red carpet events with Ryan when she posted images from 2012’s Place Beyond The Pines.

She wrote: ‘Magic is real. We didn’t meet on set. The magic started a long time ago, but here’s a little bit of magic caught on camera.’

One fan said, “Eva, I want to be honest (with you), but I hope Barbie makes it through Awards season just to see you (with) Ryan. I know I’m selfish and probably a dreamer, but I’ll never stop dreaming about it!! (sic).”

To which she replied: ‘You are the best! What a cool comment; Thank you. But we don’t do those things together… Like these photos I posted, I only feel comfortable posting them because they’re already available.”

She added, “Oh wait, for those who might catch me in a ‘lie’, we were only on the red carpet together once when we were promoting this movie.”