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A plus-size woman has revealed something that gets on her nerves more than the horde of 'haters' who criticize her body and condemn her for wearing revealing clothes despite her figure.
Amber Baldwyn, 24, is known for sharing her body positivity online and embracing herself for who she is, often posing in tight dresses, bikinis, crop tops and fitted pants.
However, she is 'tired' of people giving her 'backhanded' compliments about her size.
Many have parroted statements like “I could never wear that if I looked like you,” “You're beautiful for a big girl,” and “I love your confidence.”
“If you don't tell this to little girls, don't tell this to big girls!” she said. “It just means you're insecure about yourself and have internalized fatphobia.”
Amber Baldwyn, 24, is known for sharing body positivity online
The phrase “I love your confidence” is considered particularly harsh by several plus-size content creators because they are passive-aggressive.
Aria TikToker, shared what people “really” mean when they call her “confident” because she's wearing a tank top.
“It must have taken so much self-confidence to put on that top despite the fact that people are going to call you ugly and fat because you don't fit society's beauty standards,” she hears every time someone compliments her perceived confidence.
Amber also recently revealed that she is often told to 'cover up' and hide her body.
She shared a short clip of a comment someone made about her body: 'Why do you dress like that when you're so big? Cover.'
But Amber just let the insult roll off her back and used a comedic bit from Kim Kardashian saying:because it's iconic, and I love doing iconic things'.
'All bodies shake, all bodies wrinkle and roll. It's okay to have scars, marks, and blemishes. Free yourself,” she wrote online.
Other curvy women have previously complained that their dating lives have suffered because of their size, but Amber revealed that she is happy with who she is and never seems to have struggled in that area.
Amber's social media posts show her flaunting her curves in tight dresses, bikinis, crop tops and fitted pants
But Amber still continues to advocate feeling good about yourself and loving yourself.
Thousands of followers from around the world couldn't agree more with her message, with many showing their love.
“I wish I had your trust, you are so beautiful,” said one.
“Amazing – I love your body,” wrote another. 'It's perfect.'
“You are so sexy and absolutely exquisite,” another man said.