Abbie Chatfield asks her followers if she’s a lesbian because she thinks of women when she has sex with men: “Am I gay or is it ADHD?”
Abbie Chatfield has asked her followers if they think she is a lesbian.
The radio host is bisexual, but now questions her sexuality because she likes to think about women while having sex with men.
Speaking on her It’s A Lot podcast, the 27-year-old asked, “So I haven’t really just come out of feeling except with women, I literally have to distance myself from men.”
“Sometimes there is still a man involved I think of, but in my mind I think of the woman and her enjoying the gangbang.
“So my question is, am I just gay?”
Abbie Chatfield (right) has asked her followers if she is a lesbian. Recently pictured partying with a friend
Abbie then said that her friends who are lesbians said this is not a normal thing for a bisexual person to do, so she’s probably gay.
However, the podcast host then wondered if it was because of her ADHD.
She added, “I feel like it could also be an ADHD thing? Where is your brain trying to cling to something else?
The radio host is bisexual, but now questions her sexuality because she likes to think about women while having sex with men
“I bought a Cigarettes after Sex record to listen to during sex to distract my brain, but there aren’t many lyrics.”
Abbie posted a clip of the podcast episode to her Instagram page asking her followers for advice.
She wrote, “This is a sincere question: am I bisexual with ADD who needs extra stimulation or just a lesbian who has obligatory heterosexual tendencies?
‘Queers and neurodivergents, comment on your verdict x’.
The radio host said her lesbian friends think she is gay
Many of her followers jumped on the comments to help the radio host with her predicament.
One person wrote, “Who needs labels baby? Just be Abbie’.
While another said, “Sexually bisexual, but romantically lesbian?”
And a third commented: “I’m from a Lezbo myself… I guess if you think of women when you’re having sex with a man… & you can’t– when you’re with a man… and when… you don’t someday the D will… then you are gay babes.’
Abbie posted a clip of the podcast episode to her Instagram page asking her followers for advice