I found a CRAZY text message on my fiancé’s phone – it completely changed the way I feel about our relationship

An engaged woman has sparked a heated debate about relationships after posting a TikTok video revealing a “crazy” text her fiancé sent his ex – while insisting he would never do the same to her.

In her TikTok clipuser Daniela explained that she damaged her phone about two years ago, so her fiancé Tyler gave her his to use.

Daniela, 29, soon discovered that some of his old messages were still on the phone, leading her to discover an old conversation between Tyler and an ex-girlfriend that “really shocked” her.

“Since we are still two days away from our wedding, I had to ask a supplier for a refund,” she explained in the video. ‘But I couldn’t remember the amount, so I went to my text messages and typed in ‘reimbursement’.

She was shocked by the message and claimed it looked nothing like the man she was engaged to

When she was looking for the refund amount, she saw a message there that really stood out because it “just didn’t make sense.”

“It was a message from my fiancé to his ex when they were dating, from Valentine’s Day,” she explained.

Her fiancé, she dramatically revealed, had sent a message to his ex asking if she could pay him back half of their Valentine’s Day plans – which he says he never asked her in the entire four-year relationship. long relationship.

“He scheduled a date and asked for a $35 fee,” she said in disbelief.

Daniela was so disturbed by the message that she said if someone she was in a relationship with had asked her something like that, she would have dropped it immediately.

“(If someone sent me this) I would have said something like, goodbye, goodbye,” she said.

According to Daniela, Tyler pays for a large portion, if not all, of her lifestyle, and she couldn’t believe he would have asked previous partners to split the cost of things.

“This man who gave me a designer wedding dress, this man who took me everywhere, to the fanciest restaurants I’ve ever been to, the best hotels, who pays all the bills and paid for the entire wedding. honeymoon and planned it and I never heard him ask for money,” she ranted, saying it was nothing like the man she is engaged to.

“Like a gun to my head, if you had shown me this message out of context and told me your fiancé wrote this, I would have thought that was impossible,” she cursed.

Courtney and her current husband Tyler (pictured) have been together for four years and she says he hasn’t asked her for anything in that time

She lashed out at comments accusing her of making herself feel better by posting private text messages between her now husband and his ex.

She said the difference between the way Tyler (pictured) treats her compared to his ex speaks volumes about their relationship

Commenters were unsure of her decision to post the message on TikTok, especially since it was the week of her wedding

According to Daniela, the stark difference between the messages and the way she and Tyler’s ex were treated is proof that a man will do the right thing when he finds someone he wants to commit to.

“This just goes to show that all the relationship gurus are right,” she claimed. “A man can be so different when he finds the partner he wants to spend the rest of his life with.”

Daniela’s strong views on relationships – and the financial divide – divided TikTok users, many of whom accused her of being snarky and insecure.

“So instead of giving you an ‘Ick’, it gave you an ego boost? I mean I guess? “What do you really want us to learn from this,” one person wondered.

“This isn’t flex,” another adamantly wrote. “Look for someone who treats everyone with kindness and respect, not just those he deems worthy.”

“Cringe that you’re confusing her and support what he does for you (veiled as advice for women). You hope she sees this,” another added.

Some users agreed with her tough approach.

“We all experience different versions of that person!” said one TikToker.

“That’s true, because if he wanted to, he would,” agreed another.

“What if he wasn’t in a great financial position at the time and even $35 was a stretch? I hope you stay if he loses everything,” one user commented.

“He wasn’t in a great financial position when we started dating and he did everything for me!” Daniela replied. ‘Being a provider and being rich are different things.’