Woman sparks debate after sharing her theory on exactly what time a man will choose to get married

A woman has sparked the debate after suggesting that she knows exactly what time men choose to get married and that it has nothing to do with how ‘in love’ they are with someone.

Taylor Herd, who goes by @Taytalkspod on TikTok, went viral after sharing the ‘theory’ she heard from a wedding photographer.

“Ever since I heard this theory, I can’t get it out of my mind,” the video began. Men marry the woman in front of them at the moment when they are ready to marry.

‘Let’s talk about it.’

Taylor Herd, who uses @Taytalkspod on TikTok, went viral after sharing the ‘theory’ she heard from a wedding photographer

The forceful statement was followed by a story straight from the photographer’s mouth.

“Obviously she’s been to a lot of weddings and watched men marry the woman in front of them at the moment they were ready to get married, which implies that that wasn’t necessarily that man’s soul mate or that man’s love. for his life,” Taylor said.

“It was just the girl he was dating at the time he was ready to get married and settle down.

“When a man decides that he is financially and emotionally ready to settle down and start a family, he takes a different approach to dating.

The forceful statement was followed by a story straight from the photographer’s mouth.

‘That part of your brain that thinks “oh wait, there’s another girl out there” shuts down, because now your focus is on the marriage.

“It’s not about finding the next best thing.”

The idea struck a chord with a number of Taylor supporters who were quite willing to go along with it.

“Applies to the men who lost that ‘only’ girl who got away,” one person wrote in the comments section.

‘Yeah, okay, and so is the woman who is easy to deal with,’ said another.

I have heard it and I have seen it. Ex literally married the next girl he dated after he ended things,” another explained.

‘I asked him why and he told me that he will be 30 soon.’

The idea struck a chord with a number of Taylor supporters who were quite willing to go along with it.

Another added: ‘Yeah, and the woman who checks the boxes of what his family, religion, circle expect of him. He will reject the girl he loves if she doesn’t fit in with it.

But not everyone was so convinced, and several men said that wasn’t how they made their decision.

‘I refuse. I will never marry a woman who doesn’t know she is the one,’ wrote one man.

‘I won’t even date a woman if my heart is with another.’

Totally disagree. I waited until I found a partner worth building a life with,” said another man.

A third said: “I don’t agree…this theory is about women who really loved each other but refuse to realize that their man may not have loved them to the same level.”