Woman reveals the bizarre system she and her husband use to initiate sex: ‘If it’s lit after 7pm, this is your green light’

A woman has shared how she and her husband create intimacy in the bedroom.

Brisbane influencer Jessiika Wilson shared with her 71,600 followers earlier this week that she uses a candle to communicate to her husband Philip that she wants to have sex.

She explained how the simple system works: if the candle is lit after 7 p.m., that’s the signal for her boyfriend to make his move.

Jessiika admitted that the concept started after she was too ‘scared’ to ask her husband for sex.

“I used to be freezing, okay? I used to be so frigid,” she said in her video.

‘I never used to make the move, the first move. You wouldn’t catch me dead taking the first step in my marriage.

“I would just wait for (him) to come to me… And if he didn’t, even if I wanted him to, I would just lay there,” Jessiika added.

After realizing that the lack of communication wasn’t working, the influencer came up with the candle solution.

How the simple system works: If the candle is lit after 7 p.m., that’s the signal for her boyfriend to make his move

“We had to introduce something different, something to open a conversation without physically saying, ‘I want you to fuck me,'” she continued.

“I put a candle next to the bed and thought, ‘If this is lit after 7 p.m., this is your green light. This is my move, my signal, so you can come in and make the move.’

The woman then encouraged her ‘cool’ followers to follow the method with their partners.

“If you’re one of those cold-blooded bitches who wants sex but won’t ask for it, light a candle. Let him know,” she said.

Jessiika admitted that the concept started after she was too ‘scared’ to ask her husband for sex

“When the candle burns, my pussy burns too.”

Jessiika is an influencer from Queensland who shares content about her home and family life.

She also owns Bloom Store, a company that sells photo albums, baby books and souvenirs.