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But how do you make sure your pup or kitty knows they’re just as loved and cared for?
With two-thirds of Brits convinced that their bushy-tailed friends have their own love language, according to research by ManyPets, the answer may depend on the habits and behaviors of your beloved.
The concept of love languages was first devised by US-based Dr. Gary Chapman in his 1992 book, The Five Love Languages, which He postulated that humans have distinct ways in which they prefer to give and receive love and affection.
Now Dr. Kirsten Ronngren, tThe pet insurance company’s veterinary expert has revealed that your pet also has a self-love language.
She explains how you can help your animals feel appreciated, even when you’re not with them, by learning how they like to receive affection.
1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
The vet says this also means they’ll recognize when your voice changes, so it’s important to be concise if you want your pet to understand what you’re trying to communicate. Stock image used
Dr. Ronngren says that pets with this language will likely “serenade you with friendly barks as you walk through the door” or “invite you to a chorus of meows as you fill the bowl with food.”
“These guys express their appreciation for you, and they always love hearing your voice back,” he explained.
“Sometimes deafening (but always adorable), these pets respond very well to training and praise, so be sure to always offer verbal and positive reinforcement.”
The vet says this also means they’ll recognize when your voice changes, so it’s important to be concise if you want your pet to understand what you’re trying to communicate.
“Pets that calm down with your voice may also benefit from background noise, such as the radio, when they’re home alone to keep them calm before you return home,” she added.
2. QUALITY TIME
They will demand it by bringing your toys, wagging their tails, and shooting you longing glances. Stock image used
These pets don’t care what they’re doing, whether it’s a round of fetch, a long walk, or an exciting game of ‘mouse on a string’, as long as they can get their full attention.
They will demand it by bringing your toys, wagging their tails, and shooting you longing glances.
“Pets that communicate through this love language will want to be very close to you and may have problems if left alone for too long,” Dr. Ronngren explained.
“If this is your pet’s love language, spending time playing with your pet is a must – they love human company and may wake you up earlier to show affection if they don’t get enough of one-on-one.”
“Making sure they have had enough exercise and mental stimulation before leaving home is essential.”
3. PHYSICAL TOUCH
Dr. Ronngren cautioned that it’s also important to know when your pet’s love language isn’t physical contact, as too much can unsettle independent animals. Stock image used
Animals with this love language will especially like to lick your face, climb on your lap, or jump up to get their paws on you, “even when they know they shouldn’t.”
“These pets want one thing more than anything else,” the vet said. And that’s Lot’s physical rampage.
She continued: “To show your pet you care, give them lots of cuddles, belly rubs and fur rubs and they’ll be their best friends – this can be a way to calm them down during stressful times.”
“It’s important to make sure you provide your pet with physical security and affection, especially when he’s in unfamiliar territory.”
Dr. Ronngren cautioned that it’s also important to know when your pet’s love language isn’t physical contact, as too much can unsettle independent animals.
4. ACTS OF SERVICE
The vet explained that it’s important to offer your pet physical and verbal signs of affection to let him know he’s appreciated. Stock image used
“Pets with this love language just want to find ways to show they’re there for you,” the expert revealed.
‘Whether it’s a hug after a long day, or giving you kisses when you might be upset.
“They’re incredibly intuitive and always know when you’ve had a bad day, so you can count on them to be your fluffy, cozy blanket when you’re feeling down.”
He explained that it’s important to offer your pet physical and verbal signs of affection to let him know you appreciate him.
“Showing appreciation through your own acts of service, from a long walk outside to providing physical comfort in stressful situations, is a great way to show you’re there and that you care,” the vet added.
5. RECEIVE GIFTS
Pets with this love language will insist on bringing you little tokens of love whether you want them or not. Stock image used
Pets with this love language will insist on bringing you little tokens of love whether you want them or not.
“From bringing home a muddy stick to surprising yourself with a yard mouse, you might think that these ‘gifts’ aren’t exactly the most loving thing your pet could do,” said Dr. Ronngren.
‘On the contrary, it may be the way they get your attention.
“Garden gifts (no matter how muddy) are a gesture of their love, and they love receiving gifts from you in return, too.”
This could range from making them a simple homemade gift or playing a game with their favorite toy.
She added, “Dogs with this love language will also respond well to treats during training, so be sure to crate them before puppy training!”