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Former Welsh rugby international Gareth Thomas has denied allegations made in the High Court that he infected a former partner with HIV, Mail Plus has revealed.
The ex-Wales and Lions rugby captain was accused of ‘concealing’ his HIV-positive condition and failing ‘to take reasonable care’ to ensure he did not transmit the virus to 59-year-old Ian Baum.
HIV carriers can be charged with grievous bodily harm if they fail to declare their status to potential sexual partners and pass on the infection.
It comes three years after the rugby legend Gareth Thomas revealed he has been living with HIV ‘for years’ – at times leaving him contemplating suicide.
The Wales and British Lions star, who came out as gay in 2009, said he was revealing his diagnosis because he wanted to ‘make a difference’ by helping end the stigma surrounding the virus.
He said he had kept his HIV status secret because he feared people would ‘treat me like a leper’.
Thomas, 48, became the first major British sports star to admit to being HIV-positive in 2019.
He also said he was threatened with blackmail – forcing him to tell his family about his HIV status before they heard it from someone else.
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Rugby legend Gareth Thomas revealed he has been living with HIV ‘for years’. He is pictured in a video he posted on Twitter about his condition
Thomas played 100 times for Wales during his illustrious career before he retired from the game in 2011
Gareth married his childhood sweetheart Jemma in 2002 but came out as gay in 2009
Thomas (pictured centre) taking part in the Wales Ironman competition in Tenby. He is pictured emerging from the water after completing the gruelling 2.3-mile swim
He said: ‘I’ve been living with this secret for years. I’ve felt shame and keeping such a big secret has taken its toll.
‘I had a fear people would judge me and treat me like a leper because of a lack of knowledge.
‘I was in a dark place, feeling suicidal. I thought about driving off a cliff. Many people live in fear and shame of having HIV, but I refuse to be one of them now.
‘We need to break the stigma once and for all. I’m speaking out because I want to help others and make a difference.’
HIV (human immuno-deficency virus) attacks the body’s immune system. Those diagnosed with the virus once had a bleak prospect.
However, nowadays it can be fully controlled by drugs which stop it developing into AIDS.
The rugby star compared his condition to ‘living with diabetes or high blood pressure’ and appears to be as fit as ever.
He said he would ‘never forget’ the moment he found out his diagnosis, which came after a ‘routine sexual health test’ in Cardiff.
When told in a ‘matter of fact way’ that he was HIV-positive, Thomas said he broke down. ‘I immediately thought I was going to die,’ he said.
‘I felt like an express train was hitting me at 300mph. I wasn’t expecting it at all. Then I was thinking, ‘How long have I got left?’
Thomas did not say when the diagnosis took place or whether he became infected while still playing professional rugby, but revealed that he had to tell a number of former sexual partners as a matter of ‘duty’ so they could get themselves tested too.
He split with his wife Jemma in 2009 upon revealing his true sexuality, seven years after they married.
David Cameron meets with Gareth Thomas at Downing Street in 2011 following his retirement
The ex-rugby player says he considered committing suicide after learning of his diagnosis
Thomas also said that learning of his diagnosis has not been the last trauma he has had to undergo.
He revealed that afterwards he was ‘threatened by people who said they would give away my secret’, who he feared would ‘use it as a weapon’ against him and his family.
He had wanted to keep the information from his parents, Yvonne and Barry, fearing it would ‘hurt’ them. After the blackmail threat he decided he had no option but to tell them. In the event he discovered he ‘underestimated’ them.
‘My parents and loved ones are fine with it,’ he said.
Thomas, who is affectionately known by his nickname ‘Alfie’, said there was so much ‘inaccurate information’ about HIV that he wanted to counter, stressing, for instance, that there was ‘no possibility’ of him passing it on to others because of the drugs he was taking.
He said: ‘I always say now, ‘I’m living with HIV. I know I have HIV, but HIV doesn’t have me. It doesn’t control me.’
Commenting on Thomas going public, a close friend who also played for Wales, said: ‘Everyone is shocked and worried for Gareth – but the important thing is he’s fit and well.
‘He is a remarkable individual who is mentally equipped to deal with this illness.
‘Everyone supported him when he came out as gay and that support will be even stronger now.’
The former rugby player posted also posted this picture of himself giving a big ‘thumbs up’ on his 45th birthday in July, with the caption: ‘I try to do the right thing but more importantly I know I will sometimes fail, cry, and be sad, and strangely it’s knowing that, that makes me happy.’
He added: ‘Gareth is inspirational, he’s changed the lives of so many people.
‘I fully expect him to become a leading light for HIV and Aids charities, that’s the sort of bloke he is.’
Thomas came out at the end of his rugby career and said at the time: ‘I don’t want to be known as a gay rugby player, I am a rugby player first and foremost I’m a man.’
Following his diagnosis revelation, there has been a huge outpouring of support.
HIV and sexual health charity Terrance Higgins Trust said in a statement: ‘Gareth Thomas has spoken publicly about living with HIV for the very first time ahead of taking on the Ironman Wales challenge.
‘He wants everyone to know that HIV shouldn’t stop you doing anything you want to. We’re very proud to call him a friend.’
Labour leader Jeremy Corbyn also tweeted his support, saying the rugby legend has ‘shown enormous strength’ in sharing his HIV status.
He described him as a ‘role model challenging stigma and prejudice’, ‘offering hope and resolve to others’.
The Welsh rugby team, who are in Japan for the Rugby World Cup, has also shown their support.
Head coach Warren Gatland said: ‘There hasn’t been a lot of conversation about it because it’s very fresh news to us at this stage.
‘It’s always sad when an ex-professional sportsman picks up an illness of any kind. As the players become aware of the news, I’m sure they’ll talk about it.’
Thomas took part in Dancing On Ice in 2013. He is pictured right with skating partner Robin Johnstone
After retiring from the game Thomas launched a successful media career while volunteering for charities and is an active supporter of Childline.
He said he hoped his public acknowledgement of his sexuality would help other young gay sportsmen seek support from charities such as Childline.
Thomas appeared as a contestant on TV’s Celebrity Big Brother where he reached the final three.
He also appeared on Dancing on Ice as a pundit and has been given his own shows on BBC Wales including Run for Your Life when he trained a group of overweight and unfit women from the Welsh Valleys to get fit for the Cardiff Half Marathon.
Last November Thomas was the victim of an homophobic attack while out with friends in Cardiff City Centre.
He posted a video on his Twitter Page showing his bruised and cut face from the Saturday night ‘hate crime’ in the Welsh capital.
A 16-year-old boy was later dealt with by restorative justice and met with Thomas to apologise for his actions.
In 2017 he made a TV documentary called Gareth Thomas v Homophobia challenging gay taunts used by soccer fans at Premiership matches.
He will now feature in a new documentary entitled: Gareth Thomas: HIV and ME, which will air on BBC One on Wednesday September 18 at 9pm.
Thomas has devoted the last few months getting fit for Ironman Wales, which is taking place in the West Wales seaside resort of Tenby.
He is one of more than 2,000 amateur competitors who lined up at 7am for the swimming leg of the gruelling race.
There were cries of ‘Come on Alfie’ and ‘Go Gareth’ as he mounted his black racing bike for a 112-mile race through Pembrokeshire’s country roads after completing the 2.3-mile swimming section in just under an hour and a half.
Thomas waved at the crowds but looked ruggedly determined and there was no smiles from the ex-rugby star the day after he revealed he is battling HIV.