Tinder Australia launches dictionary of dating terms everyone needs to know now

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Gen Z’s new ‘dating dictionary’ reveals the terms EVERY single should know in 2023, from ‘kittenfishing’ to ‘rizz’ to ‘OTP’, so how many do you know?

  • Tinder Australia has published a list of the latest dating terms and phrases
  • Terms included ‘afor-dating’, ‘cushioning’, ‘rizz’, ‘kittenfishing’ and ‘benching’

A ‘dating dictionary’ of terms used by young single Gen Zs has been launched to decode new-age lingo for millennials and Gen Xers looking for love in 2023.

From ‘cushion’ to ‘date view’, Tinder has defined the latest terms and trends, and many are relatively unknown words to the masses.

It follows a study that revealed that 62 percent of 18-25 year olds feel they speak a very different language than older singles when it comes to dating.

Tinder has released a list of words and phrases all singles should know, from ‘afor-dating’ to ‘rizz’ to ‘kittenfishing’ (file image)

What is the latest dating lingo?

Affor-dating

Short for ‘affordable dates’ and refers to dates like coffee meetups, walks or sober dinners that won’t break the bank.

‘Going on a date is the only way I’m going to be able to ask this girl out.’

bank

Keep someone warm or on the ‘reserve bench’ without actually meeting. This often happens through constant but irregular communication, with no binding date set for a meeting.

“Either he’s legitimately busy 24/7, or he’s banked me.”

Beige flags

Beige flags are early warning signs of incompatibility and are often found in people who are pretty basic and boring.

“I got beige flags right away when her bio said, live, laugh, love.”

cushioning

It refers to maintaining several alternative or backup relationships (safety pillows) in case the main relationship is not permanent.

I don’t know why he keeps coming when she calls. ‘Padded?

date view

A date that feels more like an interview because there is no natural conversation going on, but rather a person constantly ‘processing’ your questions.

submerge / submerge / submerged

Slang for leaving.

I was only at the party for an hour before I took the plunge.

eco-dumping

It is effectively about ending a date due to someone’s lack of commitment to the environmental cause.

“I dismissed him ecologically after he said climate change was bogus.”

friend introduction

When you meet the friends of a new couple

frugal flirting

Like dating, frugal flirting is about dating within your means. frugal flirting

‘Frugal flirting my way to this traveling rendezvous.’

green quotes

Green dating is when you choose to date based on shared values, particularly when it comes to the environment.

“I think I’ve subconsciously been green dating my whole life.”

kitty fishing

Changing aspects of yourself to appear more attractive to others. Unlike catfishing, this refers to things like misrepresenting your actual physical appearance instead of making up a full identity.

“Now that I’ve met her in person, it’s obvious she was fishing for kittens.”

next on deck

A term for the next person in line to date if things don’t work out with a current love relationship.

‘I really don’t have high hopes for this guy.’ ‘Yeah, I guess he’s been a bit hot and cold recently. Who’s next on deck?

prosecution

Abbreviation of the expression ‘one true pairing’ (which means dream couple). The term is often used to describe a favorite romantic or platonic couple in a story or movie.

Have you seen Wednesday yet? Wednesday and Enid are our new OTP.

Rizz

When someone has the ability to charm others easily. May be referred to as ‘game’

‘They have rizz’

sneaky link

Meeting a person regularly to have sex with each other without anyone knowing.

To be honest, we’ve been seeing each other for about three months. ‘Oh really? That’s a long time to be a sneaky link.

‘Affor-dating’ is the last term used to describe ‘affordable dating’, such as dates for coffee, walks or sober dinners, while ‘frugal flirting’ has to do with dating within your means.

Most of you are familiar with the term ‘catfishing’, but ‘kittenfishing’ refers to when someone changes aspects of themselves to ‘appear more attractive to others’. For example, editing photos to make you appear taller.

Valentine’s Day can be difficult for many singles, and some will turn to an ex, known as “recycling.”

Others may find themselves in a ‘text relationship’ where two people text frequently but rarely (if ever) meet in person.

It follows a study that revealed that 62 percent of 18-25 year olds feel they speak a very different language than older singles when it comes to dating.

Survey

Which term is most relevant to you?

  • Affor-dating 2 votes
  • bank 0 votes
  • cushioning 0 votes
  • kitty fishing 0 votes
  • prosecution 0 votes
  • Rizz 2 votes
  • sneaky link 3 votes

The dating world can be brutal, and some on the scene with more options than others may end up ‘locking up’ on something.

This is when a single person keeps someone in the ‘reserve bank’ in their contacts without meeting, which can occur through constant but irregular communication, without setting a binding date for a meeting.

The term “hiding” also describes a situation in which a person spends long periods of time with a partner but never ends up meeting their friends or family.

The word ‘rizz’ can be used to describe someone with the ability to easily charm others.

The term ‘sneaky link’ is also used when a person meets another person on a regular basis to have sex without anyone knowing.

And a ‘date view’ is a bad meeting that feels more like a job interview than a date.

Some people who write text in a very “dry” or smooth manner are also known as “dry texters.”

Tinder Australia spokeswoman Kirsty Dunn said: “We’ve seen a massive change in the way we hook up and go out, and along with that, the language we use to talk about dating and sex continues to evolve.”

‘If you’re in the dating game, you’re probably scratching your head wondering what everyone is talking about when they say they’ve been ‘crumbing bread’ or ‘ghosting’. It’s a wild world, and this guide could be the key to saving your love life,” added dating expert Jana Hocking.

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