A dating coach has revealed one of the biggest turn-offs for men when it comes to first dates – and claims it can ruin a promising relationship.
Quentin, the founder of the RTP Dating Method, says that if women commit to a first kiss, they should “do it right.”
He explained that many men “get a kick” from a peck on the lips at the end of a date.
“I talk to so many men about this; they are so put off by a kiss,” he said.
And added that it doesn’t matter if on the first, second or third date it can mean the end of the romance.
A dating coach has revealed one of the biggest turn-offs for men when it comes to first dates – and claims it can ruin a promising relationship
“This assumes, of course, that you want him to kiss you,” he said.
“If you don’t want him to kiss you, lean away.”
He said the kiss should be an art.
“If a guy is trying to make out with you and all you’re doing is picking on him, you need to work on your kissing skills.”
He admitted that I sometimes ‘over-do it’ with the post-date pash and added that there has to be a middle ground.
Quentin’s video went viral and hundreds of people weighed in on the issue.
Many women disagreed with his position.
‘Kissing is a start, a first date is not for making out. You can respect a woman before you get to know her to get the good stuff, or hire someone to get the kiss you want,” one woman said.
“If she pecks, she honestly didn’t want to kiss him. It’s a message. She really doesn’t feel it,” one woman said.
“Once you’re over 30, sex isn’t necessary anymore,” another added.
While some agreed with Quentin and said it’s about finding the right balance.
“You can still kiss someone so they know you’re interested, and not kiss them like your grandmother.”
I love a good kisser, dicks are for family,” one man agreed.