- The Kivin method means that women receive oral sex from a sideways position
- Women who are fans of this move say it helps them reach orgasm in minutes
- READ MORE: The Great Orgasm Gap: Why Women Come Less Than Men
A new, unconventional technique for performing oral sex on a woman is being hailed by TikTok users as a ‘foolproof’ way to achieve female orgasm.
This measure, which young people on social media have dubbed ‘The Kivin Method’, involves the giver positioning himself near his partner’s genitals.
This is said to stimulate a larger surface area, enhancing the female orgasm.
On TikTok, women and sex therapists have praised the method as the “best way, the most foolproof way to give oral sex” and “the most important piece of sex education you will ever need.”
A woman picks up a pen and paper to draw a diagramexplaining to men all over the world exactly how to position themselves to empower a woman’s finishing act.
Oral sex is usually performed from a frontal angle, but sexual health experts say approaching the vulva from a perpendicular angle increases the intensity of the sensation.
The sex trend has also gained attention from popular wellness outlets, including Kourtney Kardashian’s health and beauty website Poosh.
In a recent column on the site: certified sexologist Dr. Aliyah Moore wrote that the Kivin method is: ‘Aimed to provide a new feeling with extra intensity through the unorthodox approach of stimulating the clitoris.
‘With this approach, people can increase the number of sensations and potentially make any sexual act more diverse and exciting.’
She explains that in the Kivin method, the giver lies perpendicular to the receiver, with one of her legs draped over her partner’s back.
The giver then approaches the female genitalia at an angle of approximately 45 degrees across the vulva.
Many women who have added this move to their bedroom activities say it helped them reach climax in minutes while increasing the power of their orgasms.
TikTok users are singing the praises of the Kivin method of oral sex, which involves approaching a woman’s genitals from the side.
On Reddit, users take to forums to share their experiences with the method.
One wrote: ‘Doing it from the side makes so much sense for both parties.’
Another fan said: ‘It’s very awkward for me to have someone between my legs so I love this position and make sure any man I’m with is well practiced in it.’ Others simply say the results are ‘astonishing’.
But the key to the success of any sexual technique is comfort, and the leg position is uncomfortable for some.
Partners have complained online that the weight of a woman’s leg on their back is uncomfortable.
In this case, sex therapists say women can place pillows under their hips to lift their pelvis, giving their partners better access to the area without having to bear the weight of the recipient’s leg.
Although the measure has many devoted followers, sex therapists say an orgasm is never guaranteed. Not all women who try the Kivin method will experience the orgasm-to-end-all orgasms.
Dr. Moore wrote: ‘Some people may find the diagonal method unusual because it offers a new angle of stimulation.
‘It should be noted that feeling is very subjective. For some people this can be very exciting and satisfying, while others may not feel any noticeable differences from regular oral sex techniques.’
A 2018 study of 1,400 women published in the journal Archives of sexual behaviorResearch found that only 30-40 percent achieve orgasm during intercourse.
Dr. Moore added: ‘Patience is also a crucial element when it comes to improving your intimate experiences. Instead of rushing, it is essential to invest time and effort in cultivating anticipation and desire.