Taylor Swift’s ex-boyfriend Joe Alwyn feels ‘distraught and belittled’ by her new romance with British singer Matty Healy – after he put his ‘trust in her’ when she told him she was just ‘friends’ with the 1975 frontman .
Rumors of Taylor, 33, and 34-year-old Matty’s relationship first surfaced earlier this month, just weeks after news of her split from British actor Joe, 32 – who she dated for six years – became public made.
According to a source with exclusive insider knowledge of the situation, Joe is very unhappy that his former partner left so soon – especially after putting his “trust” in Taylor when she started working with Matty during the final months of their relation.
“Joe feels slighted and distraught after seeing her budding relationship with Matt, but is doing his best to keep busy and focus on himself,” a source close to the actor told DailyMail.com.
Taylor Swift’s ex-boyfriend Joe Alwyn (seen together in October 2022) feels ‘distraught and belittled’ over her new romance with The 1975 frontman Matty Healy, a source has revealed
Taylor, 33, and Matty, 34 (seen together on May 11) collaborated on her October 2022 album Midnights – and the insider said Joe ‘trusted’ his then-girlfriend when she said she was ‘friends’ with the singer
In November, Matty described Taylor as ‘amazing’, while revealing that the pair had spent some time collaborating on her album Midnights – due out in October 2022 – something the insider says Joe was fully supportive of at the time. full of ‘confidence’ in his girlfriend at the time.
Two months later, on January 12, Taylor surprised fans when she gave an impromptu performance of her new hit song Anti-Hero at The 1975’s concert at London’s O2 Arena.
“Joe was aware that Taylor and Matt were making music and working together. She told him they had become friends and that he trusted her,” the source continued, though they denied there had been any “overlap” between Taylor’s two romances.
Representatives for Taylor, Matty and Joe did not respond to requests for comment.
While it is unknown if Taylor interacted with Matty regularly during the concert, Matty’s mother Denise Welch, 64, shared a selfie on her Twitter that she took backstage with Taylor during the show.
The pop star was spotted in London the following week with Joe in London.
On March 16, Joe began filming The Brutalist in Hungary with co-star Emma Laird — and two days later, Taylor embarked on her international Eras Tour.
The news that Taylor and Joe were over came as a shock to most when ET reported it in April. Neither of them released a statement about the breakup, which seemed strange to some, given that Joe had swooped on her to press a few weeks earlier.
Joe (seen in the first photo since his breakup with Taylor) is now ‘doing his best to keep busy and focus on himself’
In February, Joe said he’s “happy in a monogamous relationship” with Taylor during a CTAM media presentation for the latest project on Hulu titled Conversations with Friends.
While discussing his character Nick Conway – who is in an open relationship – the British actor said: ‘I think people can do what they want and make them happy. I’m clearly happy in a monogamous relationship.”
“Due to the nature of an open relationship, it’s just a lot of talking. It’s just exhausting, at least for me,” Joe added.
Midnights, Taylor’s 10th studio album, was released on October 21, 2022. Taylor first announced the album in August, calling it the “story of 13 sleepless nights spanning my life.”
Taylor and Matty were brought together during the collaboration. The common denominator this time was Jack Antonoff, the famous Hollywood record producer and songwriter.
Taylor credits Jack with much of her success, including her 1989 Grammy win, which he produced. The two also collaborated on Reputation, Lover and Folklore, for which the pair scooped the 2021 Grammy for Album of the Year.
She praised him when Midnights came out, saying, ‘He’s my friend for life (presumptuous I know, but I’m sticking with it) and we’ve been making music together for almost a decade. just the two of us as key collaborators.’
On April 10, Matty gave fans a hint of things to come when he told fans at one of their last shows on the final leg of the 1975 tour that he was going to be taking a break from social media for a while.
Taylor and Joe (seen in 2020) dated for six years before breaking up — and were even rumored to have gotten engaged during that time, though she later denied the speculation
Matty (seen at Taylor’s show on May 5) has been to most of Taylor’s recent concerts as she continues her Eras Tour. He has been seen dancing with her father and chatting with her friends
“That’s because everything happens in ages,” he told the crowd. ‘The 1975 is a band from the era. The era of me being an asshole is coming to an end. I’m done with it.’
On May 3, Matty Taylor sent a not-so-cryptic message during The 1975’s one-off show. Before singing one of The 1975’s recent hits, called About You, he looked into the camera and said, “This is about you, you know who you are. I love you.”
Taylor said the exact same phrase verbatim to the audience when she sang her song Cardigan at a show for The Eras Tour the following weekend.
On May 5, The 1975 performed on the Nashville leg of Taylor’s tour – with Phoebe Bridgers for the opening set. Then he fangirled in the audience, wiggled his head and danced to the music to her.
On May 7, DailyMail.com published photos of Matty and Taylor in the backseat of a car as they were dropped off at Taylor’s Nashville apartment.
On May 11, Taylor and Matty were reportedly seen “kissing and cuddling” at a dinner party at Manhattan’s Casa Cipriani, accompanied by Jack.
Page six was the first to report the info and publish photos of the two new lovebirds leaving. The photos finally confirmed what had long been speculated – that the two singers were, in fact, an item.
Matty attended the second leg of Taylor’s tour in Philadelphia from May 10 to May 12. During the sold-out shows, he could be seen in a sky box next to Taylor’s father.
Their relationship manifested itself after nearly a decade of playing cat and mouse with each other, which began in November 2014 when Taylor attended The 1975’s sold-out concert in Los Angeles with her best friend Selena Gomez.
A few days later, Taylor was spotted wearing a T-shirt with the name of Matty’s band, The 1975, on it. He returned the favor soon after by wearing a t-shirt with the name of Taylor’s latest album at the time, 1989.
Matty confirmed that the pair texted each other during an Australian radio interview.
“Yeah, we met, we exchanged numbers like a lot of people do in this kind of world, and we talked occasionally. She’s a sensation, I wouldn’t say no.’
Note that celebrities often change their cell phone numbers. It is not known how long their texting and communication lasted.
In a later interview with GQ, Matty gushed some more about Taylor. “I’d say 90 perfect journalists who interviewed me asked about her as a person or what our interaction was like.”
He added, “I have said on numerous occasions that I found her to be one of the most gracious, hard-working, creatively gifted and beautiful women I have had the pleasure of meeting. Personally, I have a lot of respect and admiration for her. Why shouldn’t I?’
Any hope Matty had of getting to know Taylor on an intimate level was dashed when she started dating Joe in 2016. The two met at the Met Gala just two months after her split from actor Tom Hiddleston.
The two shared an extremely personal relationship and spent much of their time in London, where he was from.
On Taylor’s 2019 Lover album, she calls her “London boy” on several songs. In 2020, Joe co-wrote three songs on Taylor’s Folklore album and two songs on her Evermore album, under the pseudonym William Bowery.
Taylor said her relationship with Joe was not “discussed” in the press and the two were rarely seen together in public.
In July 2022, it was reported that Taylor and Joe were secretly married. She concluded them on her album Midnights.
Then, on April 8, ET reported that Taylor and Joe had decided to end their relationship, insisting that the split was not dramatic and that it got out of hand due to their different career paths.