I’ve started dating in Brisbane again but I’ve noticed this one thing about the single men here
A single woman has voiced her frustrations with Brisbane’s dating scene, claiming the men are “getting worse and worse”.
The singleton has started dating again after coming out of a seven-year relationship and said she noticed Brisbane men are only interested in sex.
However, her displeasure ruffled the feathers of many men who hit back with ‘aggressive’ responses saying the woman had ‘too high standards’.
“In the seven years I’ve been here, dating has gotten worse and worse, to the point where it seems like men just want sex or want to have sex with girls while looking for a real partner,” she said in a post on Reddit. .
‘This is why I don’t have sex anymore. Plus, women allow it, so I guess we’re equally to blame. What gives? What are you looking for/how do we actually find partners?’
A Brisbane woman said the city’s dating scene has become “increasingly worse” in the past seven years since she was last single (stock image)
The woman’s thread was answered with a series of nasty comments from bitter men that she claims “proved her point.”
“Sounds like you have bad taste in men and keep picking the wrong guys,” one person joked.
‘If they’re not in a relationship, they can do whatever they want. No one is exclusive to you until you get into a relationship with them,” another replied.
“Because you turned away the good ones, they’re all taken now. Women dominate Tinder, OnlyFans have created men to see women as objects,” a third lamented.
‘Maybe you need to do some self-reflection. You have no right to be in a relationship with anyone, and you should work on improving yourself to make yourself attractive, instead of complaining on Reddit like you’re entitled to someone,” one person moaned.
Others condemned the singleton for “painting all men with the same brush,” so she hit back at her critics.
The singleton has started dating again after getting out of a seven-year relationship and said she noticed Brisbane men are only interested in sex
‘No, I don’t have too high standards, I’m actually a nice girl. And where did I say all men are like that? “I was in a long-term relationship for six of those seven years and now I’m out of it, dating seems different,” she said.
“Those answers ALSO helped me realize part of the problem, so thank you. I’m sorry if there was a female figure in your life who wasn’t nice to you, I really am, but you can’t tar us all with the same brush. Some of us are nice.”
Many were quick to defend the newly single woman, offering their advice and words of support.
“May I introduce you to one of my friends who complains about the same things, but he’s a man?” one user laughed.
“It’s not just in Brisbane. Dating is bad for every age group, every location, every gender. I hope things get better for you. I’m out for good,” wrote another.
“Have a great group of friends who are single, stable jobs/professionals. None of them like using the apps and prefer to do social sports/outings to meet people. Try joining some social groups and see how it goes,” a third suggested.