‘Rich’ NYC housewife reveals what it REALLY takes to marry a wealthy man

A New York City housewife has opened up about the reality of being married to a wealthy man who can take her on a private jet but is never home.

Izzy Anaya, 43, is known as your ‘average rich housewife’ on TikTok, where she talks about her lavish life in Manhattan with her unnamed ‘sugar daddy’ husband and their two young children.

The housewife went viral this month after she shared a video explaining why you can’t live a life of luxury financed by your spouse and expect him to help run the household as well.

People say, “Help me find a rich man. Help me find a rich husband.” But I don’t think you fully understand what comes with marrying someone who is career driven by him,” she told the camera.

‘I am not going to lie. Not having a budget and running around Lululemon and having lunch is fun. However, be prepared to raise your kids on your own because your husband doesn’t come home at 5 o’clock.

Anaya shared that she had the privilege of filming the video at her country house, but that her husband was not with her.

He had reports for Monday and he couldn’t come. She will find us on Sunday,” she said, noting that this is typical of her marriage.

‘I go to couples dinners, school events, charity [fundraisers], everything, alone,’ she explained. ‘You can’t have Honey home at 5 o’clock helping you raise the kids and fly on a private plane. Like you have to choose one or the other.

Anaya emphasized that it takes more than good looks to bag a rich man because taking care of multiple homes is a job in itself.

You don’t have to look like a Barbie for one of these men to marry you. You have to be very, very competent,” she said.

‘If you’re not a very competent woman who can keep calendar reminders, run some households, [and] keeping your kids in order with zero help sometimes, it’s not going to work for you.

The mother-of-two insisted that anyone who enters one of these marriages expecting a ‘partner’ will end up disappointed.

You are going to be unhappy. You are going to end up divorced. You are going to complain that he is never there. You have to be very independent and very competent to thrive in this lifestyle,” she said.

‘There are days when I don’t see him, and there are weeks when we only communicate by email because he doesn’t have time to take another phone call, nor do I. I have two children to raise and three homes to attend to. run.’

Anaya added that her sugar daddy knows she couldn’t run her company if it weren’t for her taking care of their children and their homes.

“He’s very aware of how much I bring to the table as well, and it may not be at the level of his paycheck, but without me, his paycheck wouldn’t be at the level that it is,” he concluded. ‘I know you guys want the lifestyle, but are you ready for what comes with it? Think about it.’

The housewife doubled down on her warning in the caption, writing: “It’s a great lifestyle but everything has its price… What are you willing to give up or give up to get it? Maybe NOT FOR YOU! !

Whatever you decide, understand that you cannot be angry when [you’re] pass the finger BUT your partner is not… don’t show up 10 years later seeking a divorce because you didn’t have a “partner”. Understand what you are signing up for.

Anaya’s video has been viewed 1.1 million times since it was posted on February 4 and has received more than 3,500 comments.

Some viewers were delighted with the idea of ​​being rich and barely seeing their husbands, saying, ‘Sign me up.

Others questioned why she didn’t hire a housekeeper and nanny.

“I don’t like full-time help,” Anaya replied. ‘I don’t like people in my house.’

The content creator further explained why she chose to do without a nanny in a follow-up video, asking, “When did it become demeaning or below you to raise your own children?”

Anaya explained that she worked hard to have her children and was baffled that people would expect her to hire someone else to raise them just because she is rich.

‘No one is going to raise my children like me. Just because you can afford it doesn’t mean you have to pawn the kids off to someone else,” she said. ‘Why have them if you’re not going to enjoy them?’

Other commenters assumed her husband was cheating on her, but she pointed out that many wives in her situation have their own affairs because of all the free time on their hands.

Have you never heard of the pool boy? she asked in another video.

Anaya, who married her husband before he made his fortune and does not have a prenuptial agreement, made it clear that he is not worried about infidelity in their marriage.

She joked that if she ever found out her husband had a mistress, they’d be “eating at Taco Bell” and “Flying Spirit” instead of a private jet when she was done with him.

Anaya later addressed why she would stay married to a man she is never around, saying she likes to be independent and the ‘CEO’ of her own life.

“I also love, like and respect my sugar daddy,” she explained. ‘At the end of the day, I like him as a person. I like going out with him. I like his values. He is the top of the food chain for me.