- Relationship expert shares signs that someone is not the right person for you
When everything goes smoothly, it seems like a solid relationship is unbreakable, but the downside of a romantic partnership – where nothing seems to work between the two of you – can be a living nightmare.
Now a relationship expert has revealed the signs someone isn’t right for you, based on some key behavioral factors.
Matthew Hussey, 36, is known for his best-selling dating book Get The Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve, which was released in 2013.
a relationship expert has revealed the signs someone isn’t right for you based on some key behavioral factors. Matthew Hussey, 36, is known for his best-selling dating book Get The Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve, which was released in 2013.
In a video on TikTok, he shared a major indicator that you may not be ready for a full-fledged relationship
In a clip posted to his account on the social media platform, he said: “If you’re at a stage in your life where you know you’re ready for something real and you’re excited about it (then maybe you’re ready for a relation’.
However, he added that if “you have someone in front of you judging whether a relationship is even exciting for him or her, why would you put yourself in that situation?”
The video, which has been viewed more than 185,000 times on TikTok, shows that many users agree with Mr Hussey’s statement about the potential pitfalls of entering a relationship.
One user commented: ‘The caption needs to be said out loud: this person IS NOT your person.’
A second posted: ‘There are two ways to do this. Not at all or not at all. The things in between are just avoidance.”
A third added: ‘Exactly!!!!! People don’t really listen!! They hear what they want to hear.’
However, others had taken a different stance, suggesting that individuals should simply follow their intuition when it comes to finding love.
One joked: ‘Why bother?’.
Another wrote: ‘Do what’s right for you despite all this online advice because it just might work out’