Relationship expert reveals her ‘foolproof’ advice for getting ‘revenge on your ex’

A woman’s advice on how to get revenge on an ex-partner is helping thousands move on from past relationships.

Alex, from Sydney, is best known for her dating and relationship advice videos on TikTok. 

Her top tip for the best post-breakup revenge is to simply focus on yourself, refrain from any contact and pull away from your ex.

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A woman’s advice on how to get revenge on an ex-partner is helping thousands move on from past relationships

‘I’ve had three friends come out of relationships in the past two weeks, and this advice is really keeping them going,’ she said.

Alex revealed that ‘the best revenge is no response’ and to refrain from contacting them in any way.

‘If you’re blowing up his phone all day, you’ll push him further away,’ she said. ‘You’ll get labelled the ‘psychotic, crazy, jealous’ ex.’

‘But if you don’t message him, mute him on social media so that you don’t see his posts and stories – that’s a sure-fire way of getting a response.’

The relationship expert revealed that improving yourself and focusing on your mind, body, and health was the best way forward.

Alex suggested solo activities like reading, meditating, and going to the gym.

‘They don’t call it a revenge body for nothing,’ she joked. 

She also said that posting photos online of a man holding your hand would quickly backfire and make you seem jealous.

‘If you have to, you should share photos of you out in nature, at events, and having dinner with your friends.’

‘You need to show them that you’re completely fine and happy.’

The relationship expert revealed that improving yourself and focusing on your mind, body, and health was the best way forward

The relationship expert revealed that following that advice has gotten her more dates than anything else.

‘I never get more messages [from guys] than I do when I’m working out, eating healthy, and keeping my mental health on track.’

She added, ‘The best revenge is becoming the greatest version of yourself imaginable.’

Alex revealed that ‘the best revenge is no response’ and to refrain from contacting your ex

Thousands engaged with Alex’s video and many thanked her for the simple and sound advice.

‘You’re a wise lady,’ said one woman.

‘Thank you for this – very true,’ added another.