I’m a relationship investigator, here’s how cheaters avoid getting caught

A relationship researcher has opened up on how people can get away with cheating, as she opened up about the ways you can spot a player.

Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, has made a career out of helping people find the love of their lives – and leading them away from the cheaters of the world.

However, while connecting people with their soulmates, the romance pro discovered that many partners ended up breaking up when one caught the other cavorting with someone else.

Speaking exclusively to DailyMail.com, Susan revealed how people could juggle multiple lovers without telling anyone their dirty secret.

While he didn’t condone infidelity, the expert shared the ways people sneak around while keeping their partner completely out of the loop.

She told DailyMail.com: ‘You can’t have a digital footprint. You need to buy a burner phone.

‘You need to disable the data sources on your Gmail, like your GeoPoints, because you can go back. I dated someone five years ago and found out her husband was cheating and got a motel.

“Don’t text anything [explicit] even on the burner phone. Don’t tell anyone and make sure you cuddle behind closed doors.’

Susan noted that when meeting secret lovers in public, you should keep it discreet.

‘Keep it professional, don’t touch. Always maintain physical distance from the person you are with,” she told DailyMail.com.

“When it comes to hotel rooms, go in one at a time. I’d say go within an hour.’

She also advised staying extremely tight-lipped about the affair, adding that you shouldn’t even say a word to your AI friend.

When it comes to the technology, Susan explained that lovers were caught cheating because people were always looking for “AI girlfriends.”

Luckily, the relationship pro revealed that cheaters could change and that the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater” wasn’t always true.

‘A lot of people cheat. People cheat because they have a need that needs to be met,” she said.

‘People cheat because they are lonely or in the wrong relationship, but that doesn’t mean they will do it again.’

Susan noted that you shouldn’t be put off by a partner who cheated on their last lover because he or she didn’t have that emotional or sexual connection.

Although she said cheaters could be molded into the perfect partners, players would “never be faithful” and were the ones to watch out for.

While speaking to DailyMail.com, she explained how to spot a player and why you should run away as soon as he comes near you.

‘It will be very clear: they are not going to commit themselves to anyone. “If they do commit to you, they will never be fully committed,” she said.

When it comes to finding out if your crush is a player, Susan noted that there are a few ways you can find out.

“Look at their social media, see a lot of photos of them with scantily clad women. They are always on the phone,” she explained.

‘They are very heavy on the opposite sex and will tell you that they have multiple relationships and friendships with the opposite sex.

‘They will often be vague with you and avoid in-depth conversations. They will avoid defining their relationship, but they are all over you.”

Susan advised that you should let those people go immediately, because “players just need an ego boost.”