Relationship coach Louanne Ward: The five changes you need to make to date after 30

A relationship expert and dating coach has shared the five changes you need to make now to successfully date after 30, and why channeling your “girly energy” is key to securing a great match.

Matchmaker Louanne Ward has over 28 years of experience helping men and women find their ideal match without using a dating app.

She did, however, say that there are five “little tips” that women in their 30s should heed if they want to succeed in the dating world.

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A relationship expert and dating coach has shared the five changes you need to make now to successfully date after 30, and why channeling your “girly energy” is key to securing a great match (Louanne Ward pictured)

Louanne (pictured) said that as a woman you have to remember that you don’t have all the time in the world because you have a biological window, but the same is not true for men.

“Ladies, if you’re in your 30s and dating, pay attention to these five little tips,” Louanne said in a instagram video.

‘Number one is that you don’t have all the time in the world. Biologically, you have a window.

The second tip ties into the first in that if you’re wondering why your options seem limited, Louanne said it’s “because guys just aren’t in the same rush as you are.”

This is important to remember if you’re in your 30s dating and wondering why the man refuses to commit.

The third piece of advice that Louanne highlighted is that you shouldn’t expect perfection, because there is no such thing.

“Waiting for a man who meets all your expectations is not a strategy,” he said.

“Number four is you should choose a man you want to be in a relationship with instead of waiting for a man to choose you.”

More importantly, the dating coach (pictured) said you need to get out of what she calls your “masculine energy” and instead into your “feminine energy,” which is more vulnerable.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, the dating coach said that you need to get out of what she calls your ‘male energy’ and into your ‘female energy’ instead.

“You are capable and independent and as long as you run your life that way, you are in your masculine energy,” Louanne said.

‘It is more powerful and more captivating to be in your feminine energy.’

She said that you should never be afraid of showing your vulnerable side when dating someone, and that doesn’t mean you’re ‘weak’.

“We’re talking about being vulnerable enough to share who you really are and express your desire to want to take on a female role,” Louanne said.

Louanne is 28 days old dating reboot show which has been designed to break the ‘attract the same type of men’ cycle and encourage you to meet people in real life.

Louanne (pictured) previously revealed why she should avoid saying ‘I don’t have any expectations’ on a date

Earlier, the relationship expert, who has developed a huge following online for her dating tips and advice, revealed the five simple words singles need to stop saying if they want to find “the one.”

Louanne knows what makes men and women tick, but she claims that eligible bachelors and bachelors are unwittingly pushing away their perfect match.

The Australian dating expert and matchmaker took to Instagram to share a video explaining why both men and women should avoid saying, “I don’t have any expectations.”

According to Louanne, the statement turns people off and is “a bit of a lie” and an “orange flag” when it comes to dating.

She noted that the statements people make in the early stages of dating could be misinterpreted, causing challenges in her love life.

On Instagram, Louanne questioned whether it’s possible for someone to date without expectations and whether there’s a “hidden meaning” that could be an “orange flag.”

“These little lies aren’t huge red flags, but they certainly are red flags and can give you an idea of ​​where your date is emotionally and if they’re wasting your time,” she said.

Particularly with online dating, singles generally have minimal expectations that their date will look like their photos, be who they say they are, and be on time for the first date.

‘When you hear this, what it probably means is: ‘I’ve been rejected so many times [and] I have no hope that this is going to work,’ he said.

“You’re probably dealing with someone who’s pretty tired of dating and it’s never that much fun to hang out with.”

She also warned that her date may not have any intentions of wanting a relationship.