A furious bride-to-be has been criticized online after she lashed out at her own grandmother for accidentally posting pictures of her dream dress on Facebook.
The young woman shared photos of text messages showing her abusing her elderly grandmother, who accidentally turned the secret photos into her profile picture.
The furious bride explained that both she and her mother-in-law cried when she tried on the dress and thought it was ‘the one’.
So when she woke up and saw that her tech-savvy grandmother had posted them to the world, she was livid.
A bride has revealed her anger when she woke up to find her grandmother had accidentally posted her dream wedding dress on Facebook
The post included a strange caption offering to buy the bride several crowns to match the dress – making it clear that it was meant to be sent as a message.
The bride demanded her grandmother delete the photos, telling her the mistake had “hurt her deeply.”
The grandmother seemed exhausted.
“I’m so sorry, I tried to send you the pictures. I don’t know what I did that made it appear there. I’m not sure how to remove it. I’m very sorry I wouldn’t do anything to hurt you on purpose, I love you,” the grandmother replied sweetly.
But the bride-to-be was having none of it and drove to her house before asking where she was.
She labeled the mistake as “absolute betrayal” and banned her grandmother from attending her wedding.
She also posted about the error on Facebook.
“I’m absolutely devastated by this,” she explained.
And when she saw it the morning after shopping, she asked her grandmother to take it away.
The bumbling grandma made matters worse by accidentally replacing the profile photo and story with more photos of the dress.
“It’s still active right now and my whole family has either seen it or commented on it,” she said.
She added that the shopping trip led to the discovery of three “amazing” dresses. The women, including her grandmother, who had supported her adjustment were sworn to secrecy.
The bride-to-be said her grandmother made things worse when she tried to fix the mistake
And they all promised not to show anyone any photos from the day – especially of the top three dresses – which all appeared on Grandma’s feed.
While people could understand why the bride was upset, they couldn’t understand how she treated the older woman in such a horrible way.
Many called the bride a bridezilla and were shocked that she would post evidence of her abusive behavior online while playing the role of victim.
“Okay, being angry is understandable. Her reaction is not. Give old people some patience, the technology is much more advanced than they are used to,” one woman said.
“Jesus, my grandma has no idea how to use Facebook and I saw her make a mistake like that. Honestly my fiance loves her and I think if I talked to her this way he would leave me. This is such terrible behavior after an accident,” said another.
A third added: “I want to know who grandma is so I can go to her house and help her block you out of her life.”
But people claim it’s her fault because of the way she abused her grandmother after the situation
The bride was further embarrassed after describing her grandmother as her support and source of support.
She explained that her own mother is toxic and abusive, but the bumbling grandma stood by her through thick and thin.
‘I love it when unhinged people have to preface their terrible actions with ‘I’ve been through a trauma,’ as if that even matters after you’ve violently threatened your grandmother. What a sick person,” one woman said.
A second agreed: ‘How can you call your grandma your rock and then literally send her abusive messages and threaten her. This is actually one of the worst things I’ve ever read.’
A screenshot of the woman’s original post was shared with wedding shaming groups, where thousands of people expressed their shock and outrage.