I’m a professional girlfriend and men pay to take me out for dinner – here are the weirdest requests I’ve received

An Australian woman has lifted the lid on her life as a ‘professional girlfriend’, where men pay her to dress up and go out on fancy dates.

In one case, Ruby Jade was paid $1,000 (£500) to watch her client have sex with another woman without participating.

The 24-year-old from Brisbane works as a dancer in a strip club, but her part-time job as a ‘professional girlfriend’ often sees her jetting off to luxury holiday destinations or enjoying meals in five-star restaurants.

She has even been paid to stay in posh hotels or spas – and is routinely showered with gifts, including expensive jewelry and clothes.

Despite being classified as a sex worker, Ruby says she never has sex with clients – adding that she draws the line at ‘holding hands’.

She added that she loves both of her jobs, as a stripper and as a professional girlfriend, and has no plans to give them up.

Ruby said: ‘I love my job as a professional girlfriend – I get paid to go to fancy dinners, arcades, theme parks and spas.

‘They find sexual satisfaction in it, or feel some kind of reward – but we don’t go further than holding hands.

In one case, Ruby Jade was paid $1,000 (£500) to watch her client have sex with another woman without participating

Ruby started OnlyFans in 2020, which over time evolved into a job at a strip club a few months later

She also recalled the first time she was paid to watch one of her clients have sex with an escort, describing her third “job” as “being a cuck.”

‘I became a cuck after my client came to me with the idea: he wanted to book an escort and I offered to be there too.

‘I sat in a cuck chair in my lingerie with a drink in hand, even giving tips along the way so he could please her.

‘I got paid, as did the escort, and he was very happy with the result!

‘I actually feel like it has made me a more caring and empathetic person. It has given a different insight into the positive impact I can have.’

Ruby started OnlyFans in 2020, which over time evolved into a job at a strip club a few months later.

She now makes about $300 on a weeknight, and $500 a night when she works weekends, with tips and lap dances.

But besides that, she said, she likes to do other things: sometimes she’s a dominatrix with the pay pigs, or she’s a professional girlfriend.

She also likes to do other things, sometimes as a dominatrix for the pay pigs, or as a professional girlfriend

her part-time job as a ‘professional girlfriend’ means she often flies to luxury holiday destinations or enjoys meals in five-star restaurants

Ruby said she has a regular client who she has been working with for a long time and is confident enough to go abroad with them, adding that they are planning a trip to Singapore.

Men who want to be submissive have paid for haircuts and groceries.

Others have taken her on dates – paying for her time and also covering the costs of a luxury meal, drinks and entertainment.

Ruby said: ‘I’ve been on a spa date before, with drinks, food and a massage.

‘When I go to dinner parties, I usually don’t go easy on their wallets.

‘I would like to receive a bill for more than €250 and then ask if I can take the leftovers home!’

She added that a generous customer once booked her a hotel room at a five-star hotel – and spent just two hours with her.

But he paid for two days in the luxury accommodation, so Ruby brought her friends and turned her stay into a mini girls’ holiday.

Ruby said she has a regular client who she has worked with for a long time and whom she trusts enough to travel abroad with.

She said, “We plan a vacation to Singapore together and he pays me over four thousand dollars, plus the cost of the trip.

“We won’t even be in the same room!”

Although cucking is a newer side hustle to her usual work, she said she would like to continue with it.

She said she even found it “interesting and cool” to look at sex from a different perspective.

Although she said things don’t always go according to plan, which is the fun of it.

She said: ‘As they got more into it, I sat on the bed with them.

‘I ended up getting a slap in the face when the escort went to the head of the bed and found me!

‘Afterwards, the client and I went for a drink and did a debriefing. He was very happy.

“He said he would do it again.”