She is expecting identical twins with her footballer boyfriend Jarrod Bowen, 26.
And Dani Dyer, who is already a mother to Santiago two, from her previous relationship with Sammy Kimmence, revealed that she is dealing with some serious “mother’s guilt” right now.
The 26-year-old former Love Island star took to Instagram to share a gallery of photos of her young son as she said that despite the ‘endless guilt’ she was ‘excited’ to grow her clan.
She wrote: ‘I’m so excited for our family to grow… I feel so lucky and blessed to have 2 more babies… but I feel like I have so many worries running through my head that I need to just get them all out.
‘I remember one of my friends had a second baby and she told me about the guilt of the second baby she had and I never understood it until I got pregnant again. Honestly, the mother’s guilt never ends, I don’t think so.
‘Mummy guilt never ends’: Dani Dyer, currently expecting twins with footballer boyfriend Jarrod Bowen, 26, revealed she is dealing with some serious ‘mummy guilt’ right now
‘I have a lot of worries’: The 26-year-old Love Island star, who is mum to Santiago two, took to Instagram to share snaps of her young son as she said despite the ‘endless guilt’ she is ‘thrilled’ to grow your clan.
Dani also detailed her birth plan, as she “has booked to have a planned C-section” after having an emergency one with Santiago.
She opened up that she “instantly felt guilty” because of the recovery time after the procedure, as she won’t be able to do her normal activities with her son.
The reality star continued: ‘I’ve been booked in to have a planned C-section. Because I had an emergency C-section before they felt the safest way would be to have the twins delivered by C-section again.
“Especially since they are identical twins, it is always a little more risky. I always wanted to have a vaginal birth, but I knew I had to listen to my consultant.
‘As soon as I found out that I should have a C-section, I instantly felt so guilty and worried about recovery.
I still want to be able to pick Santi up and run and do the activities I usually do, but since Santi is still little, I really can’t explain why mom can’t do her usual activities.
“A lot is changing, but I still want him to think that I can be the best mom I can be.”
Dani has reached out to other mums who have dealt with the same guilt on an app and has also asked her followers on social media for advice.
“It’s always a bit risky”: Dani also detailed her birth plan since she already “booked a planned caesarean section” after having an emergency one with Santiago
‘I always wanted a vaginal birth’: She opened that she ‘felt instantly guilty’ due to the recovery time after the procedure, as she won’t be able to do her normal activities with her child.
‘Knowing you’re not alone is very important’: Dani reached out to other mums who have dealt with the same guilt on an app and also asked her social media followers for advice.
She added: ‘With this guilt and worry hanging over my head, I went on the @peanut app to see how other moms have coped. I just wanted to talk to someone who felt the same way.
The @peanut moms assured me that it’s totally natural to feel this way and that Santi will understand more than I think and will learn so quickly that soon we will settle down as a family.
‘If you have any more tips on second pregnancies, please share them in the comments! If you’re a new mom, pregnant, or trying to have a baby, I definitely encourage you to join @peanut.
“It’s a safe space for us to meet, chat and have open and honest conversations about all things motherhood.
“Mother guilt never stops, but knowing you’re not alone and hearing from other mothers is so important.”
It comes after Dani revealed that the couple had already decided on the names for the little ones, as she gave fans a pregnancy update on social media.
Dani revealed her plans to breastfeed for the second time.
Explaining that she hopes to do it for as long as possible, Danny Dyer’s daughter added that she won’t put too much pressure on herself.
Taking to her Instagram Stories for a Q&A with her 3.6 million followers, Dani shared a mirror selfie from earlier this week.
Expectant parents: It comes after Dani revealed that the couple had already decided on names for the little ones as she gave fans a pregnancy update (pictured with Jarrod)
‘Good morning everyone, how are you all? Feels like we haven’t talked in a long time… let’s catch up,” Dani wrote.
When a fan asked if she had chosen the baby names yet, the mom-to-be confirmed, replying, “Yes, the girls’ names have finally been chosen.”
“I really hope we stick with these, but I don’t see us changing them now.”
While another was eager to find out more about her feeding plans, she asked if breastfeeding or bottle feeding would be her choice.
Sharing that she had trouble nursing Santi for a long time after giving birth, Dani explained that she hopes to do it for longer the second time around.
But without putting too much pressure on things, he shared, “I really want to try and do it longer this time… but I also don’t want it to become a stressful experience.” Having 2 babies and also a toddler. If I decide to bottle feed him, I definitely will!’