People call me crazy for my controversial parenting methods but my daughter will never be left alone with a male – including family members

A woman made some feathers online after revealing her controversial parenting practices.

Mother-of-two Aubrey, who lives in Phoenix, Arizona, took it up TikTok to explain her various parenting rules that many have called her crazy about.

In the clip, which garnered more than 360,000 likes, she revealed that she will never leave her daughter alone with any man, including relatives like her grandfather.

Elsewhere, she said there will be “no sleepovers” with friends or family and she said her little girl doesn’t have to respect people if they don’t respect her.

Launching the clip while doing her makeup, she said, “No sleepovers, not even with relatives.” And she will never be left alone with a male. I don’t care if you’re the grandparent, the uncle, or the cousin.’

“For example, I won’t treat my daughter differently than my son. I’ll let my son go out late, but not my daughter because it’s too dangerous for a woman — I’m just going to treat them both the same.”

For her third rule, she stated that her children should be open and honest with her no matter what.

She explained, “Secrets will not be kept from your parents. And if you’re one of those people who now says, “I’ll give you candy when your mom isn’t around, just don’t tell her,” that’s the fastest way to never see us again.

“She doesn’t have to kiss you or hug you or sit on your lap just because you asked her to and because you’re a relative and haven’t seen her in a long time.

“She doesn’t have to respect you if you don’t respect her too, as a child she will still have opinions and emotions and she is allowed to feel a certain way.”

Aubrey says her kids can have “mental health days” when they need them and she will help them “regulate their emotions.”

She also revealed that she will do things a little differently when it comes to school and medicine.

She said, “We’re not going to create a public school system where you sit at a desk for eight hours and learn nothing you really care about.

“We will always use holistic methods before resorting to Western medicine, and I’m not going to force (my daughter) to share or eat her plate of food.”

She continued, “I’m teaching her to stand up for herself, set boundaries, and say no.

“I will never speak badly of myself in front of her and I will not comment on her appearance or body image.

“I teach her that she can always come to me and never have to hide anything. As a mother I will make mistakes and I will admit it and apologize.

“Nothing will ever be because I said so, I will have legitimate reasons. I will also travel with her, even if it is difficult with a toddler, it is worth reminiscing all the memories and experiences with our family.

She concluded, “I want her to know her worth and never look to others for validation.”

The clip was titled, “Controversial Ways I Raise My Daughter.” Call me crazy IDC.”

Opinions were mixed in the comments section, with many agreeing with the mom rules, some thought no sleepovers were a step too far.

On person wrote, “So you’re saying you’ll never be away from her? Like not even letting her stay with grands for a few hours?

Another said, “Will she never be allowed to have sleepovers with her friends?” no judgement. only those were some of my best childhood memories’

While another agreed: “No sleepovers is wild. I hate that my mom never let me.”

However, others praised Aubrey for her lines and many said they basically do the same thing.

One person said, “So many things happened to me as a kid AT A SLEEPOVER!! Good for your mama.’

Another wrote: ‘Don’t cuddle it! Thank you! I hated it when my mom forced us to hug people I didn’t like. Many of my relatives were mean to me as a child.”

While someone else said ‘100% The school and medical is my favourite. and eating 1. and body image. ‘