Parents feel ‘trapped’ by having to live close to their grandparents to benefit from free childcare, says Zoopla

  • An average family receives 468 hours of free childcare per year from grandparents
  • 36% who rely on grandparents say they cannot afford further professional childcare
  • Zoopla says many families are choosing to live close to their grandparents for support

Families say they feel trapped in a “parent trap” when it comes to where they live, with many needing to be close to their grandparents to get help with childcare, thanks to rising childcare costs.

According to new research from Zoopla, half of parents with children under the age of 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, with seven in 10 living a 30-minute journey away.

A full-time place in a nursery now costs as much as £140 a day – the equivalent of £33,700 a year for one child or £2,800 a month.

Paying for childcare in many parts of Britain can take up more than 50 percent of an annual salary, according to a recent study by AJ Bell.

Monika Seredynska, 37, who lives in Chislehurst, South East London, relies on her daughter’s grandparents for childcare

With childcare costs now higher than the average monthly mortgage for some, according to Zoopla, it appears many adults are relying on their child’s grandparents to help reduce costs.

Zoopla says the average family relies on nine hours of childcare per grandparent, which equates to 468 hours per year.

Since parents estimate they spend $9.90 per hour on childcare – including childcare, babysitting and summer camps, this equates to $4,633.20 in free childcare per year.

Families feel trapped

Zoopla revealed that the downside is that more than half of families who receive childcare benefits from grandparents say they now feel ‘trapped’ when it comes to where they live.

More than a third of parents who have their grandparents’ support say they cannot afford to remain without their grandparents’ support because professional child care would be too expensive.

Many even have to put their aspirations of owning their own home on hold in order to get free childcare.

More than two in five parents who feel trapped would like to move to a bigger home, but prices are not affordable in the area where they have to stay to get the support of their grandparents. A quarter say they would like to move to another area, but can. it’s because they have to stay close to their parents.

Half of British parents with children under 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, and 68 percent live within a 30-minute commute

Half of British parents with children under 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, and 68 percent live within a 30-minute commute

Some are even prevented from entering the housing market altogether, with almost a third of those receiving support from grandparents saying they would like to buy somewhere but have to rent to stay close to their parents or in-laws. .

While some put their moving ambitions on hold, others consciously choose to live closer to their grandparents after having children.

Nearly two in five parents say they have moved closer to their grandparents since having children, while 11 percent are currently planning to move.

Daniel Copley, consumer expert at Zoopla, said: ‘As a parent I know first-hand how expensive childcare can be and how valuable family support is.

‘Many Britons therefore feel trapped when it comes to where they live, and it is crucial that grandparents are nearby to help.

‘This leaves many in the awkward situation of not being able to afford to buy a home close to their parents, forcing them to rent when they might otherwise be able to get on the housing ladder. Or simply live in an area where they don’t actually want to live.’

We are flying our parents over from Europe

Monika Seredynska, 37, from Chislehurst, South East London, relies on her daughter’s grandparents for childcare.

Monika’s 11-month-old daughter attends daycare part-time due to a lack of full-time childcare, but they also rely on their parents to help with daily childcare until she can start her full-time spot in another daycare later this summer.

The problem for Monika is that she and her partner’s parents live in Poland and France.

While it is relatively easy for the mother of Monika’s partner to travel from Paris via Eurostar, it is a completely different story for her own mother.

‘She lives in rural Poland, so my brother has to take her to the airport, which takes two hours, and then flies to Stansted, which my partner and I pay for,’ says Monika.

‘She could take the train to the airport, but that is much less reliable. Then it takes me two hours to get from Bromley to Stansted to pick her up, usually costing me around £60 in travel expenses.’

The childcare situation also has an impact on their living situation.

She says: “To find an affordable home during the pandemic that we could expand into and have space for our parents to stay, we chose to move from Croydon to further London.

‘We extended the two-bed flat in Croydon to our current two-bedroom, two-reception home to make room for our growing family, as the extension in Croydon would have cost at least £100,000 extra per bedroom than where we live. now.

‘We are now undergoing a loft extension at a cost of £100,000 to create two extra bedrooms for when our parents come to stay.

“Otherwise, our daughter currently sleeps in our room when the grandparents are staying.”