Olivia Newton-John connection with missing lover’s family vanished sea repeatedly ‘spotted’ Mexico

New details have emerged of Olivia Newton-John’s unlikely close friendship with the ex-wife of her on-off lover after his mysterious disappearance at sea. 

Patrick McDermott, 48, went on an overnight fishing trip with 22 other people on June 30, 2005, but vanished before it returned to dry land without anyone noticing. 

Though his fate haunted the singer amid almost two decades of lurid claims that he faked his own death, Newton-John formed a special bond with McDermott’s ex-wife Yvette Nipar. 

Ms Nipar was married to him from 1992 to 1994 and they had a son called Chance, who Newton-John also became very protective of.

Now, in an emotional social media post, Ms Nipar has revealed that Newton-John ‘always knew when to call’.

Just hours after Newton-John’s death, aged 73, Ms Nipar wrote: ‘My sweet friend…I will miss you forever. You’re free now sister.’

In another she said: ‘She always knew when to call – always.

‘And on this day, her instinct was on point – I’d only stepped outside for a sec. I’ll miss our chats and hangs lovely.

‘Fly free and sing and dance and laugh – oh, how I’ll miss your laugh.’

In a 2006 interview with Larry King on CNN, Newton-John said McDermott’s disappearance led to a relationship with Ms Nipar and Chance.

‘I’ve become very close to his ex-wife, Yvette, who’s a wonderful person, and we’ve become good friends and I see his son, and he’s thriving. He’s doing really well,’ she said.

Ms Nipar later said Newton-John phoned her immediately after the CNN Interview.

‘I’ll never forget her calling me from the green room right after this, knowing how protective I was of my son’s name constantly being put out there,’ she said.

Yvette Nipar shared an emotional message (pictured above) on social media about her great friend Olivia Newton-John

Olivia Newton-John (left) poses with her then boyfriend Patrick McDermott at the 10th Annual Human Rights Campaign Gala on February 17, 2001 in Los Angeles

‘She had no idea Larry was going to ask this.’

The US Coast Guard ruled Mr McDermott probably was lost at sea and ‘did not find any evidence of criminal action, suicide, accident or hoax in the disappearance’.

But conspiracy theories and innuendo have dogged the case ever since, with many ‘sightings’ of him in Mexico and South America while he was supposedly on the run from mounting debts.

Manhunts by police, media and private detectives have never found any conclusive proof, though, despite regular reports of him being spotted.

‘I don’t think I will ever really be at peace with it,’ Newton-John admitted about McDermott’s disappearance. 

‘I think there will always be a question mark.’

The mysterious fate of Olivia Newton-John’s on-off lover Patrick McDermott haunted the singer in her later years after he disappeared without trace amid claims he faked his own death

She got together with Mr McDermott after her 1995 divorce from first husband Matt Lattanzi and began a nine-year on-off romance with the cameraman. 

Newton-John was on a promotional tour in Australia when McDermott disappeared and it was another week after the fishing trip until it was noticed he had gone.

Crew on his fishing boat had found the Korean-American’s car keys, passport and wallet on board the boat and his car was found parked at the San Pedro marina in Los Angeles.

But still no-one realised he was missing until he failed to appear at a family event on July 6, with police finally called in on July 11. 

By then though the trail had gone cold – and investigators found nothing.

Mr McDermott had been ordered by a court to pay $8,000 in backdated child support to Ms Nipar, shortly before his disappearance.

Olivia Newton-John (seen here with daughter Chloe Lattanzi) got together with Patrick McDermott after her 1995 divorce and began a nine year on-off romance with the cameraman

Patrick McDermott, 48, went on an overnight fishing trip with 22 other people on June 30, 2005, but vanished before the boat Freedom returned to dry land without anyone noticing

He had filed for bankruptcy with debts of more than $30,000, prompting speculation he’d faked his death to escape and start anew.

A three-year probe into the Freedom fishing boat found it didn’t carry out any head counts on the day of the trip, causing the disappearance to go unnoticed.

Though both investigations concluded Mr McDermott was likely lost at sea at night, there were continual reports of him being seen around Mexico, where he was said to be living on a yacht off the coast of Sayulita and Acapulco.

TV companies repeatedly sent teams of undercover film crews and private detectives to look for him and set up sophisticated online website traps to trace him.

For almost two decades afterwards, McDermott was rumoured to be in hiding in Mexico, on the run from crushing debts and said to be living on a yacht off the Mexican coast at Sayulita

One investigator John Nazarian insisted in 2016: ‘It’s rumoured he was with a German national. I spoke to people there. 

‘The girl he was travelling with was described as having a German accent.

‘To come up with the conclusion that he fell off the boat, and allegedly no one saw him fall off the boat, is the most preposterous thing I’ve ever heard in my life.’

All the manhunts proved fruitless though and Mr McDermott has never been found, alive or dead.

Photographs of a man and a woman said to be Mr McDermott and his new lover in Mexico were published in 2017 by New Idea magazine.

But the claims were undone weeks later when a Canadian couple came forward to say they were the people in the photograph.

Olivia Newton-John put the tragedy behind her to get on with life, meeting future husband John Easterling and marrying him at an Inca ritual in Peru in 2008

Olivia Newton-John put the tragedy behind her to get on with life, meeting future husband John Easterling and marrying him at an Inca ritual in Peru in 2008.

But the mystery continued to stalk her in the years that followed, although she had resigned herself to the fact McDermott was most probably dead. 

‘He was lost at sea and nobody really knows what happened,’ Newton-John told 60 Minutes in 2016.

‘It’s human to wonder. Because whenever you go through difficult times, there’s always those concerns.

‘Those are the things in life you have to accept and let go. Of course questions always come up and that’s human.

‘But you know, I live on.’

WHAT HAPPENED TO OLIVIA NEWTON-JOHN’S LOST LOVER? 

Theories have raged for almost two decades about the fate of Olivia Newton-John’s on-off lover, movie cameraman Patrick McDermott, 48.

He vanished on an overnight 22-hour fishing trip on the boat Freedom out of  San Pedro marina in Los Angeles on June 30, 2005.

The boat’s crew found his car keys, wallet and passport on board after all the other passengers disembarked the following day, and his car was found parked nearby.

The crew hadn’t done a headcount so no one noticed he was missing for another week when he failed to turn up for a family event, with police alerted almost a week later.

Since then, speculation has raged about what happened to him, with investigators unable to find any evidence of a crime, suicide, hoax or an accident on the fishing trip.

Officials believe he simply fell overboard and drowned, but conspiracy theorists insist he may have had another boat lined up to meet him offshore.

Eye witnesses reported seeing Patrick McDermott around Mexico, including around Acapulco

Others believe he may have planted his belongings on the boat before slipping off, possibly before it even left port, without anyone noticing. 

Private detectives set up a website FindPatrickMcDermott.com to try to trap the missing American into giving himself away, identifying the location of everyone who accessed the site.

A flurry of web traffic from the  Sayulita area of Mexico’s west coast sparked a hunt for him there without any success.

Others say they spotted him living on a yacht off the coast of Acapulco, 1,000km further south.

One investigator claimed to have found him and spoken with him in 2009, saying he just wanted be left alone, but the claim was unsubstantiated.

Another claimed to have categoric proof he was alive and was on the verge of revealing it – but never did. 

Over the years there have been at least 20 sightings of him in Mexico and Central America, but many have proved false.

One set of pictures of a couple alleged to be the distinctive looking McDermott – who was half-Korean and adopted at the age of two – turned out to be a Canadian couple. 

His ex-wife Yvette Nipar, the mother of their son Chance, begged for the speculation to end for the sake of their child.

She pleaded with Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos to block the publication of a book by private eye Philip Klein about her ex’s disappearance. 

‘My son has been through enough emotional torment over this,’ Ms Nipar wrote, branding Klein a ‘serial liar’. 

‘He has yet to be able to move on, due to Mr Klein’s continual effort to keep him in the public eye.

‘Let him rest in peace.’