I run a nudist resort and these are the do’s and don’ts of getting naked at a holiday retreat (and how erections are dealt with)

The owner of a naturist resort in Fuerteventura has told all about nudist holidays.

The 57-year-old explained the do’s and don’ts of being in fashion, from making eye contact to dealing with erections – and noted why nude holidays aren’t about sexual attraction.

Karie Jane from Derbyshire has taken the initiative BHH Naturist Resort in the Canary Islands, Spain, after first trying the lifestyle 20 years ago.

Now she runs retreats where she hosts groups of strangers who have “booked separately” to enjoy the hotel rooms in her clothing-optional property, as well as families and couples.

On her resort website, Karie notes that ‘nudism is not shameful, or porn’, and told MailOnline Travel that when it comes to the etiquette of undressing in the company of fellow naturists, it’s all a matter of respect – ‘and a mistake to think so. is about sexual attraction’.

Karie Jane (left) founded the BHH Naturist Resort in the Canary Islands, Spain, after first trying this lifestyle 20 years ago

Karie explained that naturists should always sit naked on a towel ‘out of courtesy’ and for hygienic reasons

Men and women can book a stay at the BHH Naturist Resort (above) from £80 ($101) per night

Karie (above) explained that the appeal of nudism is ‘the freedom to not wear clothes and feel liberated’

Karie continued: ‘Etiquette in any situation, not just naturism, is about respect and consideration towards others over our own behavior.

‘With bare buttocks, you should always sit on a towel out of politeness and hygiene towards others. This is an example of etiquette that promotes kindness, thoughtfulness and humility.”

On her website she adds: ‘You should sit on your towel, even if you have just had a fresh shower.’

The 57-year-old’s hotel FAQ page adds that you should always “keep your legs together” when sitting because “we all know you have one and no one wants to see your legs wide open ‘.

Showering before entering the pool or hot tub, meanwhile, is mandatory, with Karie noting that you can switch’dirt, grass, oils, sunscreen, lotion, deodorants and sweat’ in the communal water.

Karie hosts naturist retreats, with female guests pictured here during one of her women-only Ladies Weeks enjoying a macramé craft session

Two of Karie’s guests enjoy skinny dipping during a trip on a chartered yacht

Does she have protocols around erections?

“That can happen,” says the resort owner, “especially if you’re new to nudism.”

She says the best way to deal with this “is to flip your towel or, if you’re at the beach, stay in the water until your situation is more under control.”

If someone draws attention to the fact that he or she is standing at attention, Karie notes that it should be reported.

She explains: ‘If you see someone with an obvious erection and who is deliberately attracting attention, please let a lifeguard or the authorities know. In most cases he is kicked out and is not allowed to come back.’

Staring at someone’s body is also frowned upon.

Karie’s website states: ‘It is very rude to stare and furthermore, if you are going to have a conversation with someone, make sure you are talking to them with good eye contact.

“If you’re going to an event or a beach for the thrill… you might as well buy a magazine and do us all a favor and stay home.”

Showering before entering the pool or hot tub is mandatory

Karie and some of her guests enjoy the sun on a nudist beach

The naturist resort of Karie is located on Fuerteventura (above). She says: ‘If you see someone with an obvious erection and who is deliberately attracting attention, please let a lifeguard or the authorities know’

THE DO’S AND DON’TS OF NUDIST HOLIDAYS

BY KARIE JANE, OWNER OF NATURIST RESORT BHH

Body language

It doesn’t take verbal language to know what you’re not saying.

Body language can sometimes speak louder than words. You don’t want to sit as if the stall doors are wide open.

Sit comfortably and keep your legs together. We all know you have one. No one wants to see your legs spread wide open.

Erections

Yes, that can happen, especially if you are new to nudism.

The best way to deal with this is to flip your towel, or if you are at the beach you can stay in the water until your situation is more under control.

However, if you see someone with an obvious erection and purposely attracting attention, let a lifeguard or the authorities know. In most cases he/she is thrown out and is not allowed to come back.

Towels

Towels are a must to have. There are different sizes and types of towels that you can sit on for hygienic reasons.

Wherever you go, if you sit down, you have to sit on your towel. Especially if you go to someone’s house or visit a resort. Even if you have just had a fresh shower, you should sit on your towel.

Showers

If you go to a pool or hot tub, shower before getting in.

This helps ensure you are clean of anything that can make the water dirty, for example… soil (dirt), grass, oils, sunscreen, lotion, deodorants, sweat etc. They don’t ask you to shower because you are dirty… but it helps keep the water clean for much longer.

Cameras

I think the majority of all nude recreation activities don’t allow you to bring or use a camera because it’s not polite to just take pictures. Many people do not want to be in your photo album.

If you’re going to take a photo, it’s best to make sure everyone in the picture has permission, otherwise you could find yourself being outed wherever you are, and this could also hinder your standing at the club . resort or federation outings in the future.

Eye contact

“Hey, my eyes are here!” It is very rude to stare and besides, if you are going to have a conversation with someone, make sure that you talk to him or her with good eye contact. If you’re going to an event or beach for the thrill… you might as well buy a magazine and do us all a favor and stay home.

It is also very rude to talk about other people’s bodies. Avoid it and talk about something safer, like food or the weather.

Nude beaches

When you are on a nudist beach, the fact that you are allowed to be naked does not mean that the facilities are accessible in the nude. Therefore, keep your clothes closed or wrap yourself in a towel when you visit the beach cafe, for example.

Jewellery

Body jewelry and tasteful piercings are allowed, provided they are not worn in a sexual context.

Sex

Any sexual activity in a public environment is not only offensive, but also illegal.

Nobody wants to see that. However, holding hands, a hug or just kissing is fine. If you want to show extra affection with someone you love, I recommend getting a room or waiting until you get back home to do so.

Clothes

Yes, we are nudists, but not stupid. In naturist resorts, clothing is sometimes allowed when it is cold or when the weather is not in our favor. However, lingerie is not considered appropriate clothing under these circumstances.

Karie explained that the appeal of nudism is “the freedom to not wear clothes and feel liberated.”

The resort owner said: ‘Once you’ve seen dozens of naked people in one day, believe me, you start to worry a lot less about whether your breasts, your labia, your pubic hair, your cellulite, your freckles, you whatever… -hanging up is normal.

“Because you can see very clearly that it is.”

Avid nudist Karie occasionally hosts women-only retreats, where nude ladies come together to experience “pampering sessions, macrame crafts, private charter sailboats” and even a “jeep safari.”

Speaking about her latest ‘ladies’ week’ event, she said: ‘We’ve already had pampering sessions and long walks on the beach with interesting conversations over a skinny dip or two.

‘An all-you-can-eat BBQ at a local surf bar was great fun, followed by live rock music and dancing with the locals.

‘The yacht sailing trip must be a highlight, especially when dolphins come to play.’

Karie shared some reviews from the ladies who enjoyed a week at her resort.

Sally said: ‘Speaking of life changing, I’ll never be the same.’

While Steph added: ‘Highly recommend the whole experience which was perfect.’

The naked presenter has previously hosted a yoga retreat for men and explained that she ‘also leads a lot of mixed groups’.

She added that “just like any group, clothed or not, it’s great to be with like-minded people.”

The next ‘Ladies Weeks’ will take place from 8 to 15 October 2024 and from 7 to 14 April 2025. Men and women can book a stay at BHH Naturist Resort Fuerteventura outside these dates from £80 ($101) per night. Visit naturistcanaries.com.

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