A desperate husband has taken to the internet for advice and reveals he wants a divorce because his wife hasn’t stopped ‘flashing everyone’ since she got a boob job.
The unnamed man, 32, opened up about his horror at the situation on Reddit under the subreddit Am I the A**hole?
In his post, he explained that his wife, 30, has always been “insecure about her appearance.”
But he said that since she underwent the knife to enhance her breasts in 2021, she loves to “display” them and has even started “showing” them off to her friends – men and women.
A desperate husband has taken to the internet for advice and reveals he wants a divorce because his wife hasn’t stopped ‘flashing everyone’ since he got a boob job (stock image)
He said the final blow occurred when they went to watch a football game with “many other mutual friends” and she suddenly “lifted up her shirt and flashed her breasts” to the “entire company” after the team scored a touchdown.
The man admitted he is now thinking of ending their marriage, and asked others online if he was wrong for being so furious.
“My wife and I have been together for 11 years and married for just over five,” he began in the post.
‘Ever since I met her at university, she has been insecure about her appearance, especially her body.
“When we got our first jobs out of college and became financially stable, she approached me and asked how I felt about her getting a boob job.”
The Reddit poster explained that he “wasn’t a big fan of the idea” because she “loved her the way she was” and “didn’t think she needed one.”
He also said he “never really liked fake breasts,” but added, “Knowing how much it bothered her, I told her I would support her decision no matter what.”
According to the man, his wife “thought about it for a while” and ultimately decided “to go through with the surgery because it is something that has been affecting her self-esteem for a long time.”
The unnamed man, 32, opened up about his horror at the situation on Reddit under the subreddit Am I the A**hole?
She underwent the cosmetic procedure in 2021 and was ecstatic with the results.
But since he got the boob job, the man said his wife wanted to show off her breasts, which made him extremely uncomfortable.
“The problem I have is that since she’s had her breasts corrected, it’s definitely encouraged her to put them on display, so to speak,” he continued.
‘She went from wearing baggy and nondescript clothes to very tight and revealing shirts with lots of cleavage.’
Worse still, she has now started “showing people her bare breasts,” which he thinks “crossed a line.”
“At first it was mostly her showing off her friends, which was still weird to me, but didn’t really cross a line for me,” he wrote.
“However, it’s almost like the more and more she ‘flaunts it’ and gets validation, the more and more she becomes empowered to keep doing it.
“The first time it crossed a line for me was when we went to a friend’s house for dinner and drinks and she had a little too much to drink and her friend showed her breasts while her friend’s husband stood there.”
The man added that when he tried to confront his wife about his feelings, she “fired” him and “shrugged it off like he was the boss.”
Despite expressing his feelings, the man said his wife continued to show off her body.
“The other day we were at a friend’s house with a lot of other mutual friends to watch a football game, and she got drunk again,” he said.
Many people sided with the man and came to his defense in the comments section
“When our team scored in walk-off fashion, she lifted her shirt and flashed her breasts to the entire party, jumping up and down in celebration.
‘She’s not even a football fan and barely understands who to cheer for. For me, it was an excuse to just show everyone her breasts (without their permission, I might add).”
He wrote that he was ‘furious’ and that this led to a huge five-way relationship between the two – and now he fears their relationship is irreparably broken.
‘She became defensive and turned on me. She said that for once in her life she is happy with the way she looks and she just wants to feel good about herself,” he concluded.
‘I tried to set my boundaries again, but she completely rejected them. We’ve been dating for about a week since that happened.
“It may sound ridiculous, but if she can’t respect my feelings and boundaries, it could be grounds for divorce.”
‘I know that may sound dramatic, but I’ve indicated that I’m not okay with it and she keeps rejecting me. Am I the asshole who insists my wife stop showing her breasts?’
Many people sided with the man and came to his defense in the comments section.
“Not the hole,” someone wrote. “She probably makes everyone uncomfortable.
‘It’s strange behavior that doesn’t fall within social norms, regardless of how she gets her breasts. Especially the flashing during a match where her surgery wasn’t even an issue.’
“Honestly it sounds like your wife is still insecure and not feeling better about herself and that’s why she’s showing off her boobs – to get validation,” someone else said.
‘She needs to focus on herself and everything that makes her insecure and unhappy. Not the asshole, and your wife becomes the asshole because she constantly flashes at people without their consent.”
Another user agreed: ‘Not the hole. It’s a pretty simple request. Especially for a married person. She doesn’t respect you.’