A woman has revealed her ‘man whispering’ hack to get your partner to do everything you want without realizing he’s being subtly manipulated.
Nicki Andrea, 28, from New England, has more than 100,000 followers on TikTok, where she shares videos about her life as a bicoastal model and influencer.
The bride-to-be is dishing out relationship advice as part of her viral ‘How to Man Whisper’ series ahead of her upcoming wedding.
“I’m going to teach you how to get your man, husband, boyfriend, whatever, to do whatever you want him to do. “Manipulate him,” she began her now-viral clip.
Nicki Andrea, 28, from New England, went viral on TikTok after sharing her ‘man whisper’ hack to get your partner to do everything you want him to do
The bride-to-be (pictured with her fiancé) gives relationship advice as part of her viral ‘How to Man Whisper’ series ahead of her upcoming wedding
Andrea boasted that her relationship technique was so good that a friend recently told her she should “teach a class on this.”
“This is something I like to call ‘man whispering.’ “I heard that from my trainer a few years ago and I thought it was the best line ever,” she explained.
‘Man whispering is basically the way you talk to your man to get your way, but without having to try too hard. Work smarter, not harder, ladies.”
Andrea said her first lesson was on giving positive reinforcement, noting that men need it just as much as women.
“My mother always said to me, ‘If you call a man a pig, he starts to grunt.’ You don’t want to keep letting him down,” she said.
“If there are things he does that you don’t like, then yes, communication is of course key, and you want to make your voice heard about that. But at the same time, it’s just as important to appreciate him for the things he does for you that are good.”
If you’re someone who wants to be treated like a princess and have a man who makes you feel safe, she advised praising your partner when he does little things like carrying your bags or opening the door for you.
“I think it’s really important to give him that positive reinforcement,” she said.
Andrea said her first lesson was about giving positive reinforcement, noting that men need it just as much as women
The model recommended verbally showing your appreciation when your partner does small things as this will encourage him to make even bigger gestures in the future
The influencer’s video has been viewed more than 790,000 times and many commenters agreed her advice worked
Andrea gave an example of how you should express gratitude verbally, saying, “I love that you make me feel so cared for, and I love that you make me feel so safe.”
‘Boys like it when you touch their ego a little. “If he does things like that and it kind of goes unnoticed, or you say ‘oh, thanks’ and you don’t really pay attention to it, then he’s less likely to do it,” she explained.
‘But if you show it those are the things that really matter to you… he will continue to do those things because he knows they matter to you.”
Andrea added that this may seem logical to some people, but many women in relationships “don’t do it.”
“Try this and see how those little things translate into big life gestures!” she wrote in the caption.
The influencer’s video has been viewed more than 790,000 times and received hundreds of comments.
Many women agreed that the trick works, although some claimed it was more about appreciation than manipulation.
“Just like training a dog,” someone joked.
Another added: ‘I’ve been a behavioral therapist and I can totally agree, positive reinforcement works wonders! With children, husband, friends, etc.’
“This is a recipe for a healthy and perfect marriage, partly based on a personal experience,” said another.