Netflix’s first queer reality dating show, The Ultimatum: Queer Love, has fans binge-watching the first four episodes and eagerly awaiting the next episode.
Hosted by actress JoAnna Garcia Swisher, the series follows five long-term couples who are at a crossroads in their relationship — with one partner ready to settle down and the other on the cusp.
So to test the true strength of their relationship, the couples – between the ages of 25 and 45 – all temporarily separate and mate with other participants in “trial marriages.”
Later in the “experiment,” which is filmed in San Diego, they return to their original partners to see how their lives compare.
Once both phases are completed, the end of the series promises fireworks.
It will see each individual decide if they want to get married, start a new relationship, or leave the show solo.
But who are the couples who put their love on the line?
Here, DailyMail.com reveals everything you need to know about those who risked it all – before the next batch of episodes is released.
On-again-off-again: Mildred Woody and Tiff Der
Tiff Der (left) is worried about marrying Mildred Woody (right) given the couple’s communication problems, constant arguments and the on-and-off nature of the relationship
Mildred Woody (she/her), 33, gave the ultimatum to Tiff Der (she/it), 32.
Their relationship started after LGBTQ+ podcaster Tiff slipped into Mildred’s DMs.
The couple, who currently live in California, have been dating for more than two years.
Zumba instructor Mildred, who has been married before and also has a teenage son, wants to get engaged to take the relationship further.
But Tiff is more hesitant, worried about the couple’s communication problems, constant arguments, and the union’s back-and-forth nature.
Money Problems Delay Marriage: Yoly Rojas and Mal Wright
Mal Wright (right) wants to be more financially stable before marrying her partner of three years Yoly Rojas (left)
Yoly Rojas (she/her), 34, gave the ultimatum to Mal Wright (she/her), 36.
The couple first met at Chicago Pride before moving to Washington State together.
They’ve already endured a period of breakup and reconciliation, but have been an item for three years.
Yoly, personal stylist and clothing consultant, now wants to get married.
Mal, on the other hand, hopes to be more financially stable first, especially now that the couple is considering IVF.
Rrefusal to commit: Sam Mark and Aussie Chau
Sam Mark (left) gave Aussie Chau (right) the ultimatum after just over a year of dating – after meeting online during the pandemic
Sam Mark (she/her), 31, gave the ultimatum to Aussie Chau (who prefers Aussie to using pronouns), 42.
The pair met online during the pandemic through an LGBTQ+ social group.
The couple has been together for just over a year now.
Sam, who is a certified tarot card reader, thinks the time is right to settle down.
But Aussie thinks they should live together for at least five years before entering the next phase of their relationship.
Different views on ‘freedom’: Xander Boger and Vanessa Papa
Xander Boger (left) met Vanessa Papa (right) in high school when their boyfriends were friends
Xander Boger (she/her), 30, gave the ultimatum to Vanessa Papa (she/her), 30.
The couple met in high school when their boyfriends were friends before reconnecting years later, “after coming out.”
The couple, who currently live in Hawaii, have been together for four years.
Xander, who is a physiotherapist and yoga instructor, now wants to get married.
But Instagram influencer Vanessa has said she does not want to lose her ‘freedom’.
Cold Feet About Marriage: Lexi Goldberg and Rae Cheung-Sutton
Lexi Goldberg (right) gave the ultimatum to Rae Cheung-Sutton (left) after three years of dating
Lexi Goldberg (she/her), 25, gave the ultimatum to Rae Cheung-Sutton (she/her), 27.
The couple, who have been together for three years, first met on dating app Bumble.
They currently live together in California.
Lexi, who works as an engagement ring salesman and OnlyFans model, is eager to tie the knot.
But software engineer Rae isn’t sure that’s the right decision.
Fans Just Hail Netflix Show As Their ‘Most Favorite TV Show To Date’
One fan wrote, “The fact that we are hearing someone talk about saving for IVF in a trailer is QUEER REPRESENTATION!!! I’M SO EXCITED’
Ecstatic followers have been flocking to the show’s Instagram page in recent days — following the release of the first episode
Ecstatic followers have been flocking to the show’s Instagram page in recent days — following the release of the first episode.
One of them wrote, “I should have gone to bed a few hours ago, but here I am starting episode three. Love itttt!! We need more LGBTQ+ reality shows!!!”
Another confirmed: ‘Yay to Netflix with all the queer couples! LBGTQ+ couples and straight couples should be the norm in all these reality shows.”
And a third simply said, “I think this is my favorite TV show to date.”
The first four episodes are currently on Netflix.
The next batch, including the final, will be available for streaming on the platform on May 31.
The cast will finally reunite for a reunion show on June 17 to reveal all the developments since the credits.