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An Australian life coach goes viral for teaching women how to ‘manipulate men to get what they want’ – and how to ‘strengthen their femininity’ and ‘stop whining’.
Margarita Nazarenko, 34, encourages women to use their tenacity, cunning and femininity “to get ahead in life” and strategically get what they want from their male partners to enjoy a lavish lifestyle.
The mother used three different animals to extract female archetypes: the divine deer, the dairy cow, and the workhorse.
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Sydney life coach Margarita Nazarenko (pictured), 34, goes viral for teaching women how to manipulate men to get what they want
The divine deer is the “embodiment of feminine energy that women should aspire to.”
The cash cow who is the “overworked maternal model of femininity” and the workhorse – a “career-driven woman with masculine energy who doesn’t want help from her partner.”
Margarita, from Sydney, argues that women must ‘enhance their femininity’ if they ‘want men to do more for them’.
“Don’t fight them to do what you want, it won’t work. Men crave femininity and get immense satisfaction from serving feminine energy,” she said.
She encourages women to use their tenacity, cunning and femininity ‘to get ahead in life’ and strategically get what they want from their male partners to enjoy a lavish lifestyle
‘Praise the excellence of a man, for they will enhance. Don’t complain about things he can’t change, as this will lessen his desire to change for the better.’
The life coach insisted that to manipulate means to ‘deftly influence’.
Margarita says she ‘manipulated’ her husband, Simon, 42, a surgeon, into a dream trip to the United States under the guise of attending an RV convention in Las Vegas, US.
“If you support your man, they can do incredible things. Simon wanted to buy an RV and I was interested in his dream and we went to a RV convention in Las Vegas,” she said.
“We ended up going on a great vacation and staying in Las Vegas, Los Angeles, and San Francisco and he didn’t buy a RV.”
According to Margarita, most men’s “dumb” ideas have a lifespan of five days.
“Women should support their husbands in whatever he wants to do. If he says, ‘I want to build a hamster farm in Wyoming,’ then you have to support his decision and it could turn out to be a great thing for you,” she said.
“You shouldn’t respond with, ‘Oh my god, idiot, what hamster farm?’ Rather: ‘Hamsters, how interesting. I like hamsters – so when we visit the hamster farm, where are we going to live?’
In her hypothesis, Margarita said the woman should ask “why Wyoming?” to which the man can say something like, “I don’t know, because it’s close.”
Margarita Claims Women Should ‘Enhance Their Femininity’ If They ‘Want Men To Do More For Them’
The woman would then ask what his dream location for a hamster farm would be and he could answer Bermuda. ‘
According to Margarita, the man’s brain quickly starts working to see how he can implement this idea and the hamsters would soon be completely forgotten in exchange for a holiday home.
“They go away and think, and you can take advantage of that — and make their dream come true on what you want, say a vacation home in a tropical country.”
Women, according to Margarita, fall into three animal archetypes: the maternal “overworked” dairy cow, the “dominant, male” workhorse, and the “divine female deer.”
Margarita also believes that there are three types of animal archetypes for women.
She said the mother role is an overworked dairy cow “doing everything and being tired.”
“To move beyond this archetype, women need to learn to set boundaries in motherhood and share duties with their partner instead of trying everything,” she said.
‘The workhorse is a dominant male role; I was in the archetype of the horse all my life. I wanted to pay bills and I was chasing men who didn’t want to be with me.’
According to the life coach, women should “strive to be the divine feminine deer that connects with their feminine energy” and should flee when something is not right.