I’m a successful 28-year-old Aussie woman and sleep with married men all the time – I don’t consider it cheating and most of the time, neither do they

A young Australian woman who sleeps with married men has revealed why she doesn’t feel guilty or consider it ‘cheating’.

Katija Cortésfrom Sydney, finds dating difficult and says she is richer and more successful than most men she meets.

The 28-year-old accountant-turned-escort told FEMAIL it is “hard to say” how many married men she has been intimate with in the past three years because it is considered “unprofessional” and “mood-killing” to have relationships with clients discuss.

However, in her experience, most married men speak highly of their wives and often do not consider paid sex as cheating.

‘I estimate that about 50 percent of my clients are married or in a relationship. It’s hard to say for sure, though, because I’m sure many people are in relationships where it just doesn’t come up. Other girls have told me that almost all their clients are married,” Katija said.

The 28-year-old high-flying escort (pictured with a friend) told FEMAIL that the married men she sleeps with often speak highly of their wives or partners

‘Denying service to someone based on their relationship status would be considered discrimination in any other industry.

“I don’t think I’ve ever had a married client who has ever spoken badly about his wife. The only ones who ever show frustration with their partners are those going through a messy divorce, but even then they will usually still talk about their partner very politely.”

Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s big four companies, said men dissatisfied with their sex lives at home seek out escorts because it is “easier and more discreet than having an affair”.

She claimed that business comes with baggage and feelings, while in her industry it is purely physical.

‘I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me because there are no romantic feelings involved. They come to me because they want to laugh, be held and have fun,” she said.

Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s big four companies, said men dissatisfied with their sex lives seek out escorts at home because it is “easier and more discreet than having an affair.”

Katija claimed that affairs come with baggage and there are often feelings involved, while in her industry it is purely physical. “I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me because there are no romantic feelings involved,” she said

And it seems like Katija knows exactly what married men want besides sex.

‘I actually find it quite moving when clients talk lovingly about their partners. The reason they see me has nothing to do with the fact that they don’t love their wives and family,” she said.

‘All [some men] What I want from me is intimacy, to be held, cuddled, kissed, embraced. It’s actually surprising to me how many men want these intimate things that are often thought to be things that only women want.

“I don’t think many women realize that most men are just as sensitive and vulnerable as we are, and that they also crave intimacy.”

Another reason why married men may turn to an escort is because their marriage is on the rocks or because they are going through a divorce.

“Or sometimes they just don’t like each other that much anymore and they are described to me as more ‘roommates’ than husband and wife, but they stay together for family reasons,” Katija said.

She also has a message for the partners of her married clients.

“Women need to understand that we sex workers don’t go out and stalk married men and drag them into our hotel rooms. Married men like to visit us. We are not the problem,” she said.

‘The problems always start at home. I don’t encourage cheating, but I don’t believe in monogamy either because I’ve seen time and time again that truly faithful relationships are rare.”

She claimed that male escorts also have clients who are married women and who cite “the same issues” of dissatisfaction with their sex lives with their husbands.