Jessie J reflects on her heartbreaking miscarriage as she reveals unreleased track about suffering the grief of baby loss: ‘We are allowed to be sad, angry, hurt, lost and broken’
Jessie J has shared a short snippet of a song she wrote two years ago when she discovered she had suffered a miscarriage.
The 35-year-old singer shared a video on Instagram on Tuesday in which she sang emotional lyrics about her raw feelings about the grief of losing her baby.
The mother-of-one welcomed her son Sky in May with her basketball player boyfriend Chanan Safir Colman after the heartbreak of her unborn child’s miscarriage.
She sang: ‘I can’t remember a day, I didn’t think of your face that my little heart couldn’t make, you slipped away. I know why you came, to light the way.
‘There’s no one to blame, you just slipped away. I wish I could have you back so I could talk to you.
Emotional: Jessie J, 35, has shared a short snippet of a song she wrote two years ago when she discovered she had suffered a miscarriage
Raw: The singer shared a video on Instagram on Tuesday in which she sang the emotional lyrics about her raw feelings of suffering the grief of baby loss
Happy ending: The mother of one welcomed her son Sky with her basketball player boyfriend Chanan Safir Colman in May after the heartbreak of her unborn child’s miscarriage
‘I’ve never felt so sad, there was nothing you could do. It comes in waves, like I’m drowning in the love I long for and that you gave me. I hate….. (text ends).
Next to the ballot, she wrote: “Trigger Warning • Miscarriage/Loss.
‘I just found this demo of a song I wrote after my miscarriage almost two years ago called “Comes in Waves” and I felt the need to share it.
‘I’m always looking for the positive turn after all the sad things in my life. But in this moment, I remember just wanting and needing to sit in my grief and be there.
‘It’s important that we allow ourselves to feel what we need in moments in our lives that call for vulnerability. We are allowed to be sad, angry, hurt, lost and broken.
‘It’s human to feel those things. Joy will return, but don’t rush your journey of sorrow. It’s such a personal journey to navigate and process.
“Sending my heart to ALL women and men experiencing loss and this pain right now around the world (world emoji).”
Fans flooded the comments with love and admiration for Jessie for posting the lyrics to the song, with some begging her to release the song.
Trigger: Jessie posted a sweet caption next to the short video of her singing the unreleased song
Consciousness: She sang: ‘I can’t remember a day, I didn’t think of your face that my little heart couldn’t make, you slipped away. I know why you came, to light the way’
Praised: Fans flooded the comments with love and admiration for Jessie for posting the song’s lyrics, with some begging her to release the song
Heartbreak: In November 2021, the singer revealed she was told she had tragically lost her unborn baby after going for her third scan, during which doctors couldn’t find a heartbeat
Single life: Jessie told followers she had ‘decided to have a baby of her own’ after revealing in October 2021 that she had split from boyfriend Max Pham after seven months of dating
Some wrote: ‘Please let it go… you have no idea how many people you are helping by teaching them through art to acknowledge their pain and not sweep it under the carpet.’
“Please let this go. It’s not a happy song, it’s not a hit song, but it’s definitely a song that so many people need and that’s honestly what your music is all about.”
‘There is no one to blame’ cuts deep. I blamed myself every day. That my body can’t do what it was made for.
Losing one pregnancy is so hard, losing two is soul destroying. Thank you for making me feel seen and supported.”
‘This is nice!!! You have to release the profits and donate them to charity.
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“So brave of you to talk about this heartbreaking time. Sending all my love.”
“Please release this, it’s sad but BEAUTIFUL.”
In November 2021, the singer revealed she was told she had tragically lost her unborn baby after going for her third scan, during which doctors could not find a heartbeat.
Jessie told followers she had ‘decided to have a baby of her own’ after revealing she had split from her boyfriend of seven months, Max Pham, a month before her heartbreak.