Jennifer Lopez celebrated the anniversary of one of her empowerment songs amid rumors of her split from Ben Affleck.
The 54-year-old Maid in Manhattan star took her Instagram on Sunday to share her steamy music video for 2021’s Cambia el Paso, a song she co-wrote about taking control and changing your own circumstances.
In the retro clip, the singer shines as she playfully rolls across the beach in a striking silver bustier and denim shorts.
Translated from Spanish to English, a line from the lyrics reads, “Her life is better now without him… she don’t need nobody to make her feel good / She don’t fail, she don’t fail.”
Another verse contains the lyrics, “He doesn’t deserve to have her in his arms.”
Jennifer Lopez celebrated the anniversary of one of her empowerment anthems amid rumors of her split from Ben Affleck; (Photo January)
The 54-year-old Maid in Manhattan star took to Instagram on Sunday to share her steamy music video for 2021’s Cambia el Paso, a song she co-wrote about taking control and changing your own circumstances.
The cryptic post follows a shocking report claiming Jlo’s marriage to Affleck has been “over for months.”
The insider also said Page Six that the couple ‘have been separated since March.’
The couple, who have not been photographed together in almost a month, have been at the center of separation rumors for months and are said to be “on the verge of divorce.”
But despite their marital troubles, the source added that Affleck is “very protective of Jennifer.”
On Monday, it was reported that the couple is selling artwork from their $60 million mansion in Bel-Air, California. The home was listed for sale last month for $65 million.
And now it appears some of the expensive items in the white, blocky, two-storey, 12-bedroom building known as the ‘Wallingford Estate’ are also being set aside.
Page Six claimed that items such as paintings and “other items” were sold to collectors in early June.
The lovebirds haven’t been seen in public together since June 2, when they awkwardly kissed each other on the cheek during his son Samuel’s basketball game in Los Angeles.
In the throwback clip, the hitmaker stuns as she playfully rolls around on a beach in a striking silver bustier and denim shorts
Translated from Spanish to English, one line of the lyrics reads: “Her life is better now without him… she don’t need nobody to make her feel good / She don’t fail, she don’t fail”
Another verse contains the lyrics: “He doesn’t deserve to have her in his arms”
This comes just days after People reported that Affleck had moved the last few belongings out of the home while Jennifer was on vacation in Italy last month.
The stars no longer live together; she lives in their $60 million mansion in Bel Air, California, while he stays in his $100,000-a-month rental house near his ex-wife Jennifer Garner.
Affleck and Garner have three children: Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12.
“Ben still lives in the rental house in Brentwood,” a source told the site.
Affleck is continuing to live his life despite persistent rumors that he plans to divorce his wife of only two years.
“He’s been there for about two months now,” another source added.
“He seems fine. He’s in the office every day and seems focused on his work. He’s also spending time with his kids.”
Jennifer, on the other hand, seems to be trying to have some fun this summer, as she was spotted in Paris and later in Italy with close friends.
The two apparently still keep in touch. They have business ties: Lopez is set to star in two upcoming films for Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company. Those films are Unstoppable and Kiss Of The Spider Woman.
This comes a week after a source told DailyMail.com that Jennifer is ‘done’ with trying to make her marriage to Ben work.
As rumors swirl about the status of the couple’s marriage, an industry insider claims the pop star has lost her mind and doesn’t think she can do more to save the relationship.
‘Jenny has had enough and she has really tried but she can’t do it anymore. It’s not getting better, it’s worse,’ a music industry source told DailyMail.com.
The insider adds that the main reason JLo left her husband was because he was always “grumpy and negative,” just like Oscar The Grouch from Sesame Street.
Jennifer is sad about the end of her marriage, but “is trying to make the best of it by exercising, spending time with her twins Max and Emme and making new plans for 2025,” the two said.
One of those new plans is to resume her This Is Me… Live tour in the summer of 2025, when she turns 56. She canceled the 2024 tour, which was set to begin in July, to “regroup.”
“She’s excited to be on tour next year when her personal life is more settled and she can connect with her fans. She’s going to bring her tribe and make the most of it,” the source said.
Lopez also says she’s “shocked” by the bad press she’s getting, and she doesn’t think it’s fair.
“If people could see what she really went through, they would be more gentle with her,” the source said.
“Ben is a great guy, but he can be moody and downer. I think the world saw that in pictures like when they were at the Grammys last year; he wouldn’t smile. If they saw it for real, they wouldn’t attack her,” Jennifer’s friend said.
“He chain-smokes and curses and seems irritated a lot. Great director and actor, but not much to laugh about, you know?” the source said. “He’s a great dad, though.”
Lopez plans to push through.
“She’s really not used to this kind of bad feedback, but she’ll get over it. She’ll move on,” the buddy said.
‘Jennifer is a very smart and strong woman and she will always come out on top!’
There are many reports that Ben and Jennifer will announce their separation soon and that they want to do it on a Friday, which is common among celebrities who break up.
Jennifer is sad about the end of her marriage but is “trying to make the best of it by exercising, spending time with her twins Max and Emme and making new plans for 2025,” a source recently told DailyMail.com; Lopez seen in June
When asked about this, the source said, “I think they wanted to wait until all the kids were out of school and had school plans and stuff like that before they made their big announcement. They put the kids first.”
She has Max and Emme with ex-husband Marc Anthony.
As for how Jennifer and Ben interact these days, the insider said they’re “friendly” with each other.
So what happened to the once cheerful Ben who used to smile at fans and kiss Jennifer in public? The source points to the pressures of Ben’s career.
“He’s currently filming Accounting 2 and the hours are very long, he’s working hard on it and it’s a lot to juggle with his marriage and kids,” the source said. “That’s why he’s not in the best mood sometimes.”
In the meantime, Lopez has cleared her schedule this summer, giving her some time to reexamine her life.
“She’s living by herself and not with Ben, I think everyone knows that already, so it’s a big change for her and the kids,” the pal said. Ben did indeed move into a $100,000-a-month rental near Garner months ago.
“Of course Jenny is sad, she loves Ben, but they are just too different. There is no give and take, there is no mingling, they are just on their own turf.”
Lopez touched down in New York City on Monday — still wearing her wedding ring — following a shocking report that claimed her marriage to Affleck has been “over for months now”; seen in 2021
The source added that Jennifer did everything she could: “She really tried her best to make it work, but it just wasn’t working.”
“She put a lot of time and effort into it, and I think he did the same. There’s no one to blame here. It just wasn’t meant to be. It’s very difficult for two big stars to keep a marriage going, one of them has to give in, and in this case neither of them gave in.”
The couple’s love story began in 2002 when they dated while filming the movie Jersey Girl. They got engaged the following year, but split in 2004. They rekindled their romance in the spring of 2021.
The duo tied the knot in Las Vegas in July 2022, followed by a lavish wedding at his Georgia estate in August 2022.