I’m a sex expert and this is why women fake orgasms

A sex expert has revealed the number one reason women fake orgasms, admitting that she knows some men simply don’t care whether their partner is faking it or not.

Sex and relationships expert Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn was a guest on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London-based presenters Fred Santana, Temi Alchemy and ‘VP’ to share her knowledge on this polarising topic.

According to the specialist, women often ‘fake’ their orgasm out of consideration for their partner(s) and for fear of ‘hurting their feelings’.

To Dr. Tara’s horror, the three male hosts gave their own opinions on the matter, but said the false act did not matter as they could easily have sex with the woman again “tomorrow.”

Sex expert Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn (pictured) has revealed the main reason why women fake orgasms

She appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London-based presenters Fred Santana (pictured), Temi Alchemy and VP, to share her knowledge on the polarising topic

She appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London-based presenters Fred Santana (pictured), Temi Alchemy and VP, to share her knowledge on the polarising topic

In a fragment shared with Instagram, She explained: ‘There’s a lot of research into why women fake orgasms, and it’s mainly so we don’t hurt our partner.’

The presenters looked at each other in agreement before Fred Santana responded, “I want women to know that men have an amazing ability to recover.”

“Especially when it comes to sex,” VP added.

The presenter then revealed a surprising truth that some women may not have considered.

VP continued, “I’m not going to stop having sex with you. No matter what you say to me… I’ll be back tomorrow.”

The room erupted in laughter when Temi Alchemy joked, “If you give me another chance, I’ll try again.”

VP also said that he was attentive when it came to bedroom activities and that he took pleasure in making sure a woman was satisfied.

“Honestly, my favorite thing to do is your favorite thing to do…whatever it is,” he concluded.

Dr. Tara said that women often 'fake orgasms' out of consideration for their partner(s) and fear of 'hurting their feelings'

Dr. Tara said that women often ‘fake orgasms’ out of consideration for their partner(s) and fear of ‘hurting their feelings’

Host VP (pictured) said: 'I'm not going to stop having sex with you. No matter what you say to me... I'll be back tomorrow'

Host VP (pictured) said: ‘I’m not going to stop having sex with you. No matter what you say to me… I’ll be back tomorrow’

The honest conversation with Dr. Tara, herself the host of the Luvbites podcast, elicited mixed reactions from listeners.

While some men found it “so informative,” one woman declared that faking an orgasm “destroys” a man’s ego.

One man said defiantly, “Damn it! That could never happen. [to me]I always comply’.

I’m done faking [orgasms]“I just sigh and tell them I’m frustrated,” one woman said.

Meanwhile, a man wrote: ‘As a man, you need to know when a woman is lying [because] the body tells you. From what I hear, men don’t take time for foreplay and that’s the key.

Women who fake orgasms to keep their men happy could find themselves in trouble if they find out, a sex expert says.

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While some men found the information

While some men found the information “informative,” one woman stated that faking an orgasm “shattered” a man’s ego

Model and now relationship coach Katie Flowers claims she has helped hundreds of women find men, but warns that dishonesty in the bedroom undermines the trust needed for a long-lasting relationship.

And even if they think they have adequate acting skills, they may be deceiving themselves if they think they can keep their partner in the dark because the signals are easy to spot.

“Don’t underestimate the power of your intuition,” the sex expert advised men. “If something isn’t right, it probably isn’t.”

Research shows that three-quarters of heterosexual women fake an orgasm at least once, while 20 percent do so regularly.

WHAT IS THE FEMALE ORGASM?

An orgasm is a feeling of intense sexual pleasure that occurs during sexual activity.

According to the NHS, it can also be called ‘coming’ or ‘climaxing’.

Both men and women have orgasms.

For women, orgasm provides no biological benefit because it is not believed to play a role in conception.

It is thought to be a purely pleasurable experience, with no other benefit.

The female orgasm is a complex neuroendocrine process that probably did not arise by chance.

And Katie believes that theatrical moans, screams and shouts are not the signs of success men should be looking for.

Blushing cheeks, a smile and eye contact are probably a much more reliable indication.

“True pleasure is characterized by authenticity and spontaneity,” she told the New York Post.

‘Look for cues that indicate a natural and unplanned experience’.

“At the core of any meaningful relationship is a foundation of honesty and vulnerability,” she added. “Fake orgasms not only undermine this foundation, but also perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and dissatisfaction.”