Tough love! Psychologist reveals the 6 ways YOU can tell if someone is really in love with you (and why rudeness is a good sign)
- Francesca Tighinean is originally from Romania but is now based in the US
- The psychologist and coach has more than 1.3 million followers on TikTok
- She recently revealed the six signs someone has a crush on you
A psychologist has revealed the signs that someone could be in love with you – from stretching their body while they’re around you to talking loudly.
Originally from Romania but now living in the US, Francesca Tighinean studied psychology at City University in London.
She has since gained viral fame by sharing a slew of psychology tips with her 1.3 million followers on TikTok.
In her most recent clip, which has been viewed more than 777,000 times, she gave viewers six tips on how to tell if someone likes them.
Francesca Tighinean has revealed the signs someone could be in love with you – from stretching their body while they’re around you to speaking loudly
In her most recent clip, which has been viewed more than 777,000 times, she gave viewers six tips for determining if someone likes them (stock image)
Her first tip for knowing if someone likes you is if they stretch around you. She also said that talking loudly around you is a sign that they like you
“Signs that someone is in love with you, according to psychology,” she captioned her video.
For her first tip, Francesca revealed why someone stretching near you could be their way of telling you they like you.
“They start stretching out when they’re around, guys especially do this,” she explained.
“If they’re close to you, they’ll try to take up more space.”
Then the psychologist said to pay attention to the level of someone’s voice – more specifically if they were loud.
She revealed that someone being loud around you was a sign that they were in love with you.
Francesca explained it was because ‘she [were] trying to get your attention.’
“Number three, they are rude to you for no reason,” she revealed.
Francesca commented that this was a “childish” and “immature” form of showing they liked you.
But someone can do it to you, especially if you don’t like them because they just want to get an emotional response from you.
And if you’re talking to someone and they can’t stop chatting, they most likely have feelings for you, the psychologist explained.
Francesca commented that if they were rude to you, it was a “childish” and “immature” way of showing they like you
Exaggerating sharing unnecessary details and changing their body position to fix their hair are also signs that someone may have a crush on you
Finally, watch out for someone who isn’t themselves when you’re around
She said if they started “sharing unnecessary details,” it was most likely because they were nervous around you.
“Number five, they change body positions when you enter a room. What we feel inside, our emotions, influence our body language. So if you evoke a certain feeling in someone, they subconsciously change their body position,’ she explains.
The psychologist said you should pay extra attention to “subtle signs” such as “styling their hair, playing with their necklace, or just straightening their back.”
The last tip to look out for to know if someone likes you is if they seem like they’re not themselves when you’re around.
“If you notice this person acting differently from other people, it’s because they’re nervous and uncomfortable around you,” she said.