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A dating coach has revealed three things he thinks people should do if they want to encourage the person they’re dating to commit to the relationship.
According to UK coach Jacob Lucas, “he’s helped millions of people get the love life they’ve always wanted through his real-life methods.”
In addition to working directly with clients, she creates dating content on TikTok, where she has an estimated 734,000 followers.
in a recent videoJacob outlined three things he thinks women in heterosexual relationships should do to encourage men to commit.
Speaking in the video, Jacob says, “I’m a professional dating coach and here are three ways to get a man to commit to you.”
UK-based dating coach Jacob Lucas (pictured) has shared a video on TikTok outlining three tips he says can get someone committed to a relationship.
Starting with his first point, the dating coach says, “Number one, get him emotionally invested in you before you start a physical relationship with him.
“That’s why you should wait at least three dates until you start a physical relationship with him.”
He explains that by meeting a potential partner on a few dates, they can get a sense of “your charming personality.”
Moving on to his second point, Jacob continues: ‘Number two [is] never try harder with him than he is putting into you.
“If you keep putting in more effort than he does, he’ll start to think he’s a little more special, get too comfortable, and start playing silly games with you because he thinks he can have you anytime he wants.
“But you must let him know that he is not more valuable than you, and you must keep him on his toes.”
His third and final point is that people should “create a sense of urgency and competence” when they start dating.
He says: ‘[This is] so he needs to think that you have other options and if he doesn’t commit to you he will be replaced.’
The first of Jacob’s pieces of advice (pictured) is to start getting to know someone before you have a physical relationship with them; he suggests going on a few dates first.
Responses to the video were mixed, with some viewers describing the advice as “fact”, but others questioning whether any of the advice could be considered manipulative.
One viewer wrote: ‘The first one, sure, but the other two are manipulative. You should go ahead if you have to.
However, another commenter said they shared his opinion, writing: ‘These are pure facts!’
And a third added: ‘Absolutely agree. Also, I really believe that women are absolutely worth it.
The video got some mixed responses, with some questioning whether the advice could be seen as manipulative, but others describing it as “pure facts.”
This latest clip followed a two-part video the dating coach recently shared that went viral and racked up 6 million views, in which he outlined the “minimal” things he thinks men should do for their female partners on relations.
In his videos, Jacob suggested that if men want to make sure their romantic relationships with women run smoothly, there are several behaviors they need to make sure they implement.
In the first part of the video, he said that you should be responsive on the phone, ask your partner out on a date at least once a week, and be their biggest cheerleader, as well as communicate their schedule and always make them feel wanted. .
Moving on to five other things, Jacob said that men shouldn’t flirt with other women when in a relationship, and should do their fair share of chores.
He added that they should take a genuine interest in your life, not be dismissive when you talk about your feelings, and finally, show genuine affection.