I’m a dating coach and here are 3 things men say that are red flags – from bragging about being wealthy to claiming they are an Alpha Male
A dating coach has revealed three things men say that he considers warning signs when dating.
Jacob Lucas is a British coach who has used his hands-on methods to “help millions of people get the love life they’ve always wanted.”
He is the author of the guide Her Dating Coach, a creator on TikTok, where he has over 765,000 followers, and he works directly with clients.
In a videohe shared three things men say that he described as ‘red flags’, captioning the clip ‘do you know someone who says these things to you?’.
The text on the screen described the talking points he wanted to discuss, as well as a reason why he thought these things were potentially problematic in dating.
Author, social media creator and dating expert Jacob Lucas (pictured) has shared things men say are red flags
Jacob’s music video opens with on-screen text that reads, “3 things men say to you that are red flags.”
The first point is: ‘If he tells you he has a lot of money.’
Further text on the screen then explains why this may be a warning sign.
It says: ‘People who have a lot of money usually don’t brag about it.’
The second point made in the video is: ‘While he tries to explain to you why he is an alpha male.’
This is problematic, the video says, because it “is like he’s trying to convince himself that he is.”
The final point raised in the video concerns the way he speaks about his ex – and in this case, context (such as when he says it) is also a factor.
It says, “When he tries to explain to you why his ex was wrong on a date with you.”
Jacob followed the video by a second partwith the same title: 3 things men say to you that are red flags – Part 2.
The points he shares in this episode are more about the positive qualities some men say they have – and why it can be a red flag when men verbalize that they have these qualities.
The text on the screen reads the first point: “He ALWAYS tells you he’s ‘such an HONEST guy’ for no reason.”
This, Jacob explains in the video, is “highly suspicious.”
When men try to convince you that they have certain qualities, like in this example, that they are alpha males, Jacob (pictured) says this can be considered a warning sign
The second thing the dating expert raises as a red flag is when a man “tells you he” can get any woman he wants.
Jacob humorously remarks: ‘He absolutely can’t do that.’
Finally, the third red flag he raises in Part 2 of the series concerns when it seems like someone is trying too hard.
Jacob writes on the screen, “He ALWAYS tries to convince you that he’s a REALLY GOOD GUY.”
This, he says, is potentially problematic because, “If he’s a good guy, he doesn’t have to convince you.”