A 50-year-old single mother of three from Melbourne said she had the best sex of her life with a man almost 30 years her junior – after leaving a note in the young man’s car.
Despite their 26-year age difference, Katie told FEMAIL that sex with the young tradie was ‘mind-blowing’ – so much so that the menopausal mum said she will never have sex with older men again.
“We met about 20 times and felt warm and heavy in his body each time,” she said. ‘The chemistry was electric. My age didn’t matter to him, in fact he said it was the biggest turn on for him. The sex was the best I’ve ever had. I felt like a teenager again.’
Katie spotted the handsome stranger every morning on her way to work in their suburb on the outskirts of Melbourne.
‘This beautiful guy got on my train, and I was remembered by how handsome he was, how young and fit he was, with dark skin and traditional overalls. “I knew I had to talk to him,” she said.
A woman, 50, left this note with her phone number on a young tradie’s note after he spotted her on the train. He responded quickly and they had a steamy three-month affair
Despite their 26-year age difference, Katie told Samantha
After watching him for a week, she wrote a note with her number and carefully slipped it behind the windshield wipers of his pants. “If this is the popular tradie, I’d really like to know your name. I’ve seen you on the train a few times.’
Hours later she received a response from the lucky trader: ‘Hahahaha so why did you leave a note, how did you know it was my car?’.
Katie went on to say that she had been with older men, that it was “boring” and that she was looking for something casual and fun.
‘I told him I was fifty because I thought that might put him off. But he said he just wanted me more and that he liked older women.”
The pair met two days later.
Hours later, she received a response from the lucky tradie
‘It was an instant attraction. We became hot and heavy in his body. The sex was breathtaking,” she said.
It was the first meeting of many, and the affair lasted for months. And it wasn’t just parking lot encounters; the playful duo exchanged up to 300 text messages and frequent phone sex during their steamy encounter.
“I felt alive again, I felt reborn, I felt powerful,” says Katie, who works as a cleaner for a local hospital. “I couldn’t believe that a young, handsome man would ever want to be with an older woman, but I was wrong.”
Katie’s love life had been dead for five years. After she married at 21, had three children and divorced at 37, her only lover was a man two years older than her. They dated on and off for years, but Katie said she was bored.
‘He was older than his age, he kept complaining about his ex and he had more issues than a weekly magazine. He let himself go in the looks department and sex was always over before it started. There was no foreplay, no exploration of each other’s bodies.’
They met two days later. ‘It was an instant attraction. We became hot and heavy in his body. The sex was breathtaking,” she said.
After they called it quits, Katie resigned herself to the fact that she was over the hill at age 50.
“I thought that was it, I was closed for business. I was lonely and my only outlet was watching movies alone on Saturday nights. I had no self-confidence and my self-esteem was the lowest it had ever been.”
It wasn’t until she invested in a sex toy that the single mom started exploring her own body. With her self-discovery, her sexual desire returned – and then she saw the handsome stranger on the train.
Sadly, their affair ended after three months, with the tradie admitting he was in an unhappy relationship at home. ‘He thought I would blow him up and ruin his life, but I’m a grown woman. I got what I wanted, and so did he. I didn’t want to pursue anything deeper, and I certainly don’t need the drama.”
Katie’s message to women over 50 is that ‘your life is not over yet’. “Put yourself out there. Do not be afraid. There are many young men who want to jump into bed with you and make you feel wanted again.’
Katie is now looking for younger lovers and jokes ‘as long as it’s legal they’re never too young.’
‘I would never go back to older men. Having sex with a younger man gave me the confidence to approach more younger men now. I felt appreciated, wanted and desired, whereas with older men I felt like everything was on their terms. I’m single, I don’t want a boyfriend, I’m not desperate and I’m not dead. My sex life has only just begun.’
Katie’s message to women over 50 is that ‘your life is not over yet’.
“Put yourself out there. Do not be afraid. There are many young men who want to jump into bed with you and make you feel wanted again.’
Here are Katie’s 3 reasons why older women should only date younger men:
1) Younger men are more adventurous. They enjoy foreplay and last longer in bed. Moreover, it is never a one hit wonder.
2) There is more banter with younger men, more humor and they are playful. They understand that it’s just sex and are happy to let you get on with your life afterwards.
3) They have respect and admiration for older women and like the way older women are more confident in bed.