I woke up to find my boyfriend locked in the toilet kissing another woman
Woman sparks a fierce argument after she catches her ‘perfect’ boyfriend kissing another woman in the toilet – and asks if he deserves another chance
A woman sparked a heated argument online after seeking advice on what to do with her two-timing partner.
The unnamed woman took to the British parenting website Mumsnet to say she was “heartbroken” after catching her partner of four years in a steamy embrace with another woman.
She said the pair had been out for the day before retiring to a friend’s house for the night.
She later woke up to find her boyfriend missing from the bedroom, after claiming he should come out for a cigarette.
The horrified woman later found him locked in the toilets kissing another woman.
The advice was pretty much one-sided, with users urging the woman to leave him and never look back.
A woman is torn after catching her supposedly ‘perfect’ partner of four years locked in a toilet kissing another woman (stock image)
She said, ‘Advice please? Been with my boyfriend for four years and on the weekends we went out and back to someone’s house.
“We went upstairs to go to sleep and I woke up and realized he wasn’t there, he said he was going to get a cigarette.
“I then found him locked in the toilet with another girl, he admitted they kissed but said nothing else happened.
“I am devastated, because before that everything was perfect.
The woman was torn between leaving her cheating partner or leaving it all behind for a romantic getaway
She added that the embattled lovers had planned a two-week vacation to Thailand, but she was in “complete turmoil” after the horrific discovery.
She continued, “I am in complete confusion as to whether I should end the relationship or give him another chance and try to get through it.
‘What would you do? Advice appreciated.’
“You immediately end the relationship,” one person replied, before adding, “What a lack of respect and concern he has for you that he would cheat you so blatantly in front of you and others.”
“I’d break up with you,” said another.
Comments were generally one-sided, with fellow users urging the woman to leave the man and never look back
Someone else said, “Of course you end it. He only admitted what he could get away with because he got caught.
“To be so bold, it’s probably not his first time cheating and I would totally expect him to have had sex with someone else, even if he got caught before he got the chance this time.” Leave the b**tard and get a sexual health check.”
Meanwhile, one person thought the rendezvous ended in a kiss due to time constraints, and added, “I’m sorry, but I don’t believe it was just a kiss or meant to be just a kiss.”
Another instructed the woman to throw it in the trash. They wrote: ‘Sorry honey, he has no respect for you at all and you will never be able to trust him again.
‘Bin him. See if you can get a friend to come on vacation or worst case you go alone. Don’t give him any attention except to ask him to pay back the holiday pay so you don’t have to pay out of pocket.’
Some commentators believe her boyfriend was up to much more than kissing after locking himself in the toilet
Another person shared a similar experience: “My ex did this to me – we all passed out after a night of drinking at a “friend’s” house.
“When I woke up at night, he was in the next room kissing my boyfriend. He blames it on the drink.
“I don’t really believe he did it with anyone else while we were together, but it was certainly representative of his overall attitude towards our relationship. That’s why he’s my ex now.’
Only one commenter had a glimmer of hope for the future of the relationship, but still advised the woman to break up and go on vacation alone.
“His reaction will tell you how he really feels about you,” she said. “If he’s not in trouble, you don’t want to be away with him for weeks…it will be torture for you, but if he’s fighting for you, there may be hope for a way forward.”