I use these three ‘mean’ one-liners to humble men and get under their skin when I’m dating: ‘They’ll be obsessed with you’
A woman has shared simple ways to ‘humble’ three different types of men and make them ‘obsessed’ with you.
Courtney Shieldsfrom the US, said she was known for being the ‘best’ flirt and getting under a man’s skin.
So the dating guru decided to share the wealth and expose the three key phrases that were sure to make a mark.
“This is what you say when you want to be memorable,” Courtney said in a video.
‘The trick is to flirt, but in a slightly mean way that gets under their skin. It’s funny when there’s a bit of irony in it.’
Courtney Shields, from the US, revealed she was known for being the ‘best’ flirt and for getting under a man’s skin
1. The athletic man or ‘gymbro’
“Use this on someone who is very athletic, or looks like they care about their appearance and are sporty,” she advised.
“You look at him and say, ‘You look like a big pickleball guy.'”
Pickleball is a combination of tennis and ping pong played on a court with paddle boards.
Courtney revealed that a man will be “confused” by the statement and won’t know whether you’re complimenting him or calling him basic.
“It’s a bit of a mixed bag because he’ll never know what you’re really saying,” she said.
2. The ‘player’
Courtney’s next trick was best suited for someone with a reputation as a player.
“If you want him to look at you differently, you don’t have to play hard to get; you have to be hard to get,” she said.
“Say you’ve been talking and flirting for a few hours, you need to stop, look him in the eye and say, ‘This is going to be hard for you.’
Courtney said he’ll question you about it afterwards, and then you’ll explain that “not getting what (he) wants” will be a hard pill for him to swallow.
“You can’t give him what he wants after this,” she said.
3. The tall man
“When men are tall – over 6 feet – they are used to meeting everyone’s height requirements and are very confident about it,” said Courtney.
“But we are here to humiliate them. You can’t say this to someone who is small because it seems rude, and we’re trying to be playful.
“Look at him and say, ‘I remember you were a little bigger.’
Courtney said the guy will “drive himself crazy” because he’s already tall – and that was the fun of it.
Many thanked Courtney for sharing her wisdom.
“This is amazing, I have to try it right away,” said one.
“The guy I’m talking to plays tennis – that pickleball thing is going to really grate,” another joked.
“I used the height measure last weekend and he was so offended that he took out his ID to confirm he was 6 feet tall,” one woman said.