A single woman has revealed the bold statement she says to men after a first date to get them to 'marry her'.
Marina Neumanwho goes by the name @marinainmiami on TikTok is looking for love and wants to get married, but she doesn't exactly tell this to her dates.
Instead, she tells men she likes that she will “never marry them.” And to her surprise, the men always seem more interested and enthusiastic than at the beginning of the date.
The 26-year-old from Miami learned about the controversial tactic after watching Pamela Anderson's Netflix documentary, “Pamela, a Love Story.”
“In a documentary, Pamela Anderson said that if you want to make sure you marry someone, tell them that you will never marry them and that you will be married in six months,” Marina said in a now-viral TikTok. video.
“She's on to something there because in the last two months I've been on several dates where there was just nothing there.
'So I just took a page out of How to Lose a Man in 10 days and said to the guys, 'You're sweet, I had a great time, but I'm really just looking for a date for a wedding on this moment. period and I don't see this becoming anything serious.”
She went on to say that you would think most guys would 'run for the hills' – but this is not the case.
“Rejection does something to their brains,” Marina said, adding that reverse psychology makes them “try harder than ever” to win her over.
She claimed that a man told her on a date that he would “never get married,” but she replied, “I am someone's wife and they will know in the future that I am their wife.”
“It's not my job to change anyone's mind. This man told me how he has really thought about how he thinks he would like to have a family in five years. “I just told you I'm someone's wife,” she said.
Marina Neuman, who goes by the name @marinainmiami on TikTok, is looking for love and wants to get married, but she doesn't tell her dates this. Instead, she makes a controversial statement.
The blonde beauty told FEMAIL how important it is that her future husband “recognizes her worth from day one.”
She also hopes that other women will understand and appreciate their own worth.
“I believe it's so important that women never be afraid to walk away from someone who doesn't appreciate them,” she said.
The video has since been viewed more than 1.3 million times, with many agreeing with her while others made jokes.
“In a documentary, Pamela Anderson said that if you want to make sure you marry someone, tell them that you will never marry them and that you will be married in six months,” Marina said in a now-viral TikTok. video
“They can't handle being told they're not qualified for the job,” one woman wrote.
“Men love a challenge,” said another, with a third adding: “I love that this isn't manipulation, it's literally just honesty, but then they're manipulating themselves.”
Another wrote: 'I've been proposed to more than ten times. The less you do, the more they want. I'm always one foot out the door and they know that.'
Others said they were proposed to multiple times and got married earlier than required.
'Truth. Told my husband to date other people. We got married five months later,” one woman claimed.
'I always knew I didn't want marriage or children. I always let the boys know. I've been proposed to five times,” said another.