I found bikini photos and secret videos of my friend on my husband’s phone while we were holidaying with her – should I leave him?

A 29-year-old woman feels betrayed after finding bikini photos and videos of her friend on her husband’s phone.

The devastated wife, who has been with her husband, 29, for 10 years, claimed she first saw him watching her friend on a group tour.

Then she found pictures on his phone and discovered that he had been “using them sexually for weeks.”

The enraged woman posted her concerns on Reddit, but not everyone was on her side.

“I found out that he had been taking screenshots of her Instagram in a bikini and had been using her photos for his sexual pleasure for weeks. The timestamps were even from the night of the trip. I confronted him about it, but it was difficult to solve,” she wrote.

“The next night I found his phone and discovered that while we were out to dinner, he took a video of her breasts in her dress. I feel so betrayed,” she added.

She further explained that she and her husband have been together for ten years and married for two years.

And complained that she was “comparing herself” to her friend.

“I feel like I’ve been cheated. My husband said he is ashamed and embarrassed and sorry he hurt me,” she said.

People were quick to comment on the awkward situation; many labeled the man as “a creep” and the woman as “self-centered” for not taking her friend’s feelings into consideration.

“Um, only creeps take photos/videos of women without their knowledge. So yes, he went much further. One thing is you’re a creep and take photos and videos of strangers, but he decided to take it one step further,” one said.

“It’s creepy for the boyfriend and horribly disrespectful to his wife and marriage,” said another.

‘He’s disgusting. If you have any respect for your friend, you will never put her in a situation where she will be in the presence of this degenerate,” a third added.

Others questioned whether the marriage should continue.

“He’s secretly filming someone’s breasts. Will you marry that?’

“If you’re still with him after that, maybe you two deserve each other,” someone said.

But the woman insisted that her husband is “usually” the most respectful man.

“It messes with my mind because my husband is the nicest, almost respectful person. This is such abnormal behavior,” she said.

Others suggested this is probably not the man’s “first time.”

“He just got bolder over time because he didn’t get caught,” one said.

“Note also that he didn’t address any of the women who were taken. He clearly didn’t want to get caught by another man… or maybe he respects men and not women,” they added.

“No one saw him take the pictures or videos at the table, he’s done it before, he knows how to sneak without getting caught,” added another.

One person told her to “get him checked out by a doctor.”

“If you really think this is so strange for him, consider getting him checked out. An extreme change in behavior could be a symptom of a real medical problem.’

Most people agreed that the marriage should be over.

“If you don’t leave him, know that you’re signing for a lifetime. He’s a sexual predator.’

Others were sad that the relationship would work with serious guidance and suggested she cut off her friend.