I called off my wedding after my sister-in-law shaved off my beard – my relationship of six years is over
People have been left stunned after a man revealed he woke up to his sister-in-law removing chunks of his beard.
The unnamed man, believed to be from the US, wrote on Reddit’s ‘Am I Wrong’ forum wondering if he had been rash to end his six-year relationship over the incident .
He explained that although he and his fiancée have been “happily” engaged for a year, the woman’s sister has always been a problem in their relationship because they tell each other everything, including private matters regarding the woman’s childhood. man.
After an argument over his beard, which resulted in a broken wine glass, the man woke up to his sister-in-law with a razor on her face.
Reddit users were left speechless at the “unhinged” behavior displayed by the two women, with one calling them “fucking crazy”.
The bride-to-be’s sister was controlling and incredibly intrusive in the couple’s relationship – but the final straw was when she attacked the man’s beard with a razor during his sleep (stock image)
The groom-to-be explained that his sister-in-law had been his partner’s “rock” during college, and that the two kept absolutely nothing from each other, including the man’s childhood secrets.
He also revealed that the sister-in-law had always opposed him, rarely uttering a word in his direction.
The groom also said that he sometimes felt like the sisters’ relationship was overbearing.
He explained that the sister-in-law spent every second of her waking hours with the couple for three months during the pandemic, only going out to eat or use the bathroom.
However, all the pent-up tension came to a head one night when the man and his partner started arguing about his “very thick” eight-year-old beard.
When told no, the bride-to-be strutted out, smashing a wine glass and a plate – all because she was told the beard was here to stay.
Unfortunately, the violent argument did not end there as the man woke up to his sister-in-law cutting his beard with a razor.
Waking up from his sleep on the couch, he immediately pushed the sister away, to which his partner scolded him.
The man hurried up the stairs, packing his things so he could get out quickly, sternly telling his partner that the wedding was off.
The couple who were due to walk down the aisle had a blazing row before the incident, with the bride-to-be smashing plates and wine glasses because she was told the beard was here to stay.
After ending his relationship with his partner, the man received a series of text messages from her and her sister claiming the woman was pregnant and had made an attempt on her own life.
After visiting his parents’ house, he told users: “Earlier today I received a text from Sally (sister-in-law) saying I was being selfish for not shaving my beard because when I run into Lexi (partner), it’s weird. I didn’t answer him.
In the following days, the newly single man received a multitude of text messages from his now ex begging him not to leave and claiming she was pregnant.
After a flurry of text messages alleging the ex-partner was attempting suicide and that she was pregnant, it was confirmed the woman had been placed in a psychiatric unit for two weeks.
Reddit users were left stunned by the actions of the woman and her sister towards the man, insinuating he had dodged a bullet.
One commented: “He’s not someone you’d want to spend your life with. »
Another added: “The drama and deluded behavior of the two showed you what your future would be like if you married this girl and her creepy sister.”
Others urged the man to “run away” from the two women, with one person writing: “Oh no, get out.” It’s not right and it’s abusive. Screaming and breaking dishes all by yourself.
One person continued: “These are all valid reasons to end the relationship.
“Lexi seems really immature and has horrible boundaries when it comes to her sister and your relationship.”
Reddit users were left stunned by the women’s actions, with an overwhelming majority warning the man to “run away” from the relationship.
Some also wondered why the man wondered if he was in the wrong, when they considered him an assault victim.
One person said: “That’s my thinking. Someone took a sharp object from around your neck while you were unconscious. Electric or blade that hurts with wrong movement.
Another joked: “Okay. So let me get this right.” Have you been assaulted and are wondering if we are wrong for not wanting to get married?? No, you are not wrong.
Many in the comments urged the man to “call off the marriage and relationship,” calling both women “exhausting.”
One commenter said: “You’re so mad at a beard that he broke a plate and a glass?
“She and her sister decide your boundaries don’t matter. Even the fact that she can’t keep what you say to herself.