Glamorous relationship coach who has helped HUNDREDS of women to find love reveals why having sex on the first date is the BIGGEST mistake you can make if you want to bag a boyfriend
A Playboy cover model who claims to have helped hundreds of women find husbands has revealed the golden rule is never have sex on the first date.
Las Vegas’ Katie Flowers calls herself the real Hitch, referring to the matchmaking character Will Smith plays in the film of the same name.
The relationship coach, who has also appeared on the cover of FHM, claims people of all genders ask her for advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom.
Her specialty is not only connecting people for love, but also helping them have better sex.
A Playboy cover model who claims to have helped hundreds of women find husbands has revealed the golden rule is never have sex on the first date
Katie Flowers, from Las Vegas, calls herself the real Hitch – referring to the matchmaking character played by Will Smith in the film of the same name
“Most women contact me asking for help to spice things up because they want to save their marriage,” Katie explained.
‘They need advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom.
‘I’ve helped people who want to regain their self-confidence after divorce, widowers, couples who want to spice up their relationships, and people who want to explore issues like bondage and sensory deprivation.’
So, what’s the secret to good sex? According to Katie, it’s all about enjoying small moments of intimacy.
Expanding further on why touch is so important, she explained, “Maybe just pat his thigh or give him a wink.”
“When you’re standing in line at Starbucks, whisper something nice in his ear.
“If you’re driving on the street and he gets irritated by the traffic, pet him gently.
“Show affection for his love language – find out how he feels loved.”
But her main rule for new lovers? No intercourse on the first date.
She said, ‘Sex on the first date? Not really!
‘Discover your [date’s] content, discover his favorite colors and maybe leave the acrobatics in bed for the third or fourth date.
‘Everything must be done quietly. When you hire my services, you want a partner for life, not a quick fling.
The relationship coach, who has also been on the cover of FHM, claims people of all genders ask her for advice on how to bring sensuality back into the bedroom
So, what’s the secret to good sex? According to Katie, it’s all about enjoying small moments of intimacy
“But if you’re going to ignore my advice, at least protect yourself!”
‘I graduated as [relationship] coach, but before that people were already looking to me for love advice.’
The Playboy model also shared five other things to consider when dating someone new: self-awareness, compatibility, communication, love language and family dynamics.
She said, “Consider [things like] compatibility in children, family responsibilities and general family values.
‘Ensure shared goals, interests and values with the potential partner.
‘Understanding and communicating effectively, including identifying and respecting each other’s communication styles [is also important].’
As for Katie herself, she’s currently active on the dating scene and prefers “personality over superficial traits.”
She added, “My first and most recurring partner is moi [myself]!
“I mean, come on, you gotta love yourself before you can spread that love elsewhere, right?
“I’ve never had a walk down the aisle like this before, but trust me, I’ve had a lot of boyfriends and mixed adventures.”