Expert reveals the five signs your partner ‘isn’t good enough’ for you: ‘You can do better’
A relationship expert has revealed the five signs a woman is too good for her partner and should leave him for a better match.
And it seems the list struck a chord with his followers, with many admitting they hadn’t seen the signs in past relationships for far too long.
Professional dating coach and body language expert Jacob Lucas says the five signs, including dating someone who doesn’t put effort into their appearance, are huge warning signs.
And point out the fact that it could be “better” when it comes to choosing a partner.
The first “sign you can do better than him” is if he doesn’t take you on a date, he explained.
Adding that there is no point in being in a relationship without them.
He continued, saying that if you “put more effort into your physical appearance than he does,” you’re probably not a good match.
“You dress yourself up for him, wear clothes you think he likes, but he doesn’t do the same for you,” he said.
The third sign of a mismatch, according to Mr. Lucas, is that you find yourself supporting your partner more than they support you.
Both parties should be the other’s biggest cheerleader and be interested in achieving their goals.
“Number four: He only talks to you when he wants something from you,” he said.
He added: “He doesn’t talk to you because he makes you feel wanted and desired, he does it so he can get something from you,” he said.
The fifth is that he is not 100 percent loyal, but “you are.”
“How many did you get out of five,” he asked, causing people to take a closer look at their love lives.
The list seemed obvious to some of the coach’s followers.
“Duh,” one woman wrote bluntly.
“I would never date someone with these traits, this is common sense,” she added when Mr Lucas asked how many of the signs her partner was showing.
But others felt ashamed once they were confronted with the truth of their relationships.
If your partner doesn’t put as much effort into his or her appearance, they may not be a good match
“Unfortunately but not surprisingly, five,” one woman said.
‘Thank you. I have all five and will keep this forever to remind myself to never put up with this crap,” said another.
One woman said she would keep the video as a “memory” if she were ever in a relationship again.
Others were proud when they ‘finally’ noticed them.
“I have all five so I broke up with him and met some great guys which improved my dating skills,” one woman said.
‘I got 5 out of 5. When I said I wanted something different and more, something he clearly couldn’t give me, he lost his sh*t. “I’m so happy I’m done and can move on,” one woman revealed.
The coach urged people to drop their plus marks if they checked all five unwanted boxes.
‘You deserve better! Stop investing your time in someone who doesn’t treat you well,” he said.