Emily Ratajkowski has criticized men for “thinking with their d**ks” after she was caught making out with Harry Styles during a trip to Tokyo.
The 31-year-old model and the 26-year-old pop star made headlines after engaging in a make-out session over the weekend on the streets of the Japanese capital.
Since the sighting, Emily has given an update on her post-divorce love life and revealed that she doesn’t see settling on her future.
The Gone Girl actress criticized men for thinking with their genitals when it comes to romantic relationships and revealed plans to raise a second child alone.
Emily’s insights arose during a new subscription-only Q&A with his fans, where he hinted that he doesn’t see a long-term future with Harry, saying he plans to freeze his eggs and give Sylvester a brother when he’s over 30.
Do not stop! Emily Ratajkowski has criticized men for “thinking with hers d**ks hers” of her after she was caught making out with Harry Styles during a trip to Tokyo.
And when a fan asked, “Is it cool to raise a baby without the father?” Emily launched into a rant about men being dumb and obsessed with sex.
She replied: “I thought about this a lot – a lot of my friends have frozen their eggs just to buy more time, do the races they want, meet the potential partner they want, but I also meet a lot of people.” they had IVF because they couldn’t get pregnant naturally.
“And I’m 31, and it was really crazy: my last visit with a gaeno, and she was like, ‘Ok, well, in about two or three years we’ll be talking about your, you know, frozen eggs.” .’ And she really surprised me, it’s not that she doesn’t think that’s reasonable, she was just like, ‘Holy crap, do I have to be thinking about that?’
“My mom naturally got pregnant with me at 38, so that part never crossed my mind.
‘I think I would definitely like to have more children, I really love being a mother. I’m not sure I’ll find someone I want to raise a child with. A friend of mine, a very famous friend with many sisters, when I told her I was getting a divorce, she said, ‘Don’t worry, guys aren’t discouraged if you have a child.’
Pucker! The model, 31, and the pop star, 26, grabbed headlines after engaging in a steamy make-out session over the weekend on the streets of the Japanese capital (pictured)
‘And guess what? She was right. I will say that there are men who are more respectful of my family, which is Sly and I, and our relationship, and more aware of it than others. And that makes a big difference to me.
‘Like if you appreciate my life as a mother and my time with Sly and how he is number 1, you win a lot of points.
“But in general, it’s not like guys are like, ‘Oh my gosh, I don’t want to be a stepdad,’ that’s just too much pressure.”
‘I’m so sorry to say this: Men think with their d**ks. And they’re just not that advanced.
“Like a woman saying, ‘I don’t even know if I can go on a first date with this guy, he has two kids.'”
‘The boys just aren’t there. So they’ll be in love with you and be like, ‘Oh shit, she’s got two kids, I guess I’m a stepdad.
End of union: Emily filed for divorce from her husband of four years, Sebastian Bear-McClard (seen in 2020), two months after they split over allegations he had been unfaithful
“I’m not saying that’s good, I’m just saying don’t worry about it, that shouldn’t be a deciding factor in having a child or not, because they’re just not thinking like that.
I want to be careful how I say this because I think having two people raising a child can be very important. I think, you know, having a father is important, but I also want to say that I know quite a few women who have done it on their own and have done amazing jobs and are fantastic mothers and have wonderful kids, and personally I’ve really enjoyed being a father for my account.
‘So personally I wouldn’t be afraid of getting pregnant and giving birth as a single woman.
“That’s not to say I’m saying it’s the best way to do it or the only way to do it, but I see it very much for my future: deciding to do IVF at age 30 to give Sly a sibling.”
“I think marriage is really hard, society is really hard, and when you bring kids into the mix it’s 1,000 times harder, so in a way (being a single mom) can make it a little easier.
But it also means no free time. There’s no shifts, there’s no “Give Mommy and Daddy a break,” so it’s a lot of work. But it can definitely be done and I think it can definitely be a beautiful thing.
“We went from flirting to attachment styles, to choosing to do IVF and to solo parenting.”
She added that it’s also extremely difficult to introduce a man into her life as a single mother, adding that some men are more attentive than others.
When a fan asked Emily to share her feelings about men wanting women to be ‘their caretakers’, she burst out: ‘I hear you, I don’t want to have to do any work for anyone, or do any work for anyone.’ I’m not willing to.
“That being said, I like it when men in particular ask me what I like…because I’m so used to guys thinking they’re an arsenal of knowledge and have nothing more to learn. I like that if they take it seriously, but a lot of times they don’t.
‘I dated a guy for a minute, whose name will not be revealed, who never made it into my book, through my own fucking book.
“He got to the middle and said, ‘It’s really good.’ He kept saying that he was a slow reader, but I was also like, ‘Hey, okay, aren’t you that into me?’
“And by the way, it’s very rare for someone to read your book, to like the more personal things about you when you’re dating that person.
Baby number two: Emily revealed that she is currently planning to have another baby on her own
“I’ve had a couple of guys ask for recommendations, and I’ve given them, and then they don’t follow through, so it’s just this empty thing, and I definitely don’t like that.
“But I think, in general, I appreciate it when men ask me what interests me, and they want to hear the music that I like, and they want to know what I like, what I think and what I enjoy because I feel a lot.” as who I am: your identity can really be reflected in your taste.
“And a lot of times, the short stories and essays that I love are central to who I am and I feel like I’ve learned a lot about other people based on their interpretation of the writing. I was really impressed and really disappointed when I sent them some writing and then I was like, ‘Oh shit, is this how you see the world? Damn.’
‘I want to go see movies with you and see what you think.
“But I’m never mad at someone who expresses an interest in the things that interest me.”
Emily’s comments come amid claims that she is trying to mend her friendship with Harry’s ex, Olivia Wilde, 39, who split from the singer last year.
Insider’s claim that their passionate embrace cost Emily her friendship with Olivia, who was reportedly devastated by her breakup with Harry.
A fountain page six that the author of My Body is ‘begging [Wilde] for forgiveness This is a betrayal.
Meanwhile, Olivia, who dated for nearly two years before calling it quits in November 2022, is “staying out of it and sticking to the right path.”
End of the road: Harry and Olivia broke up after finding out they had ‘different priorities that keep them apart’ (seen above together in March 2022)
While it’s unclear how close Emily and the Don’t Worry Darling director are, they were previously filmed dancing together at Harry’s concert in Paris and have publicly praised each other over the years.
Emily even said she felt very protective of Olivia, whose latest film was nearly overshadowed by allegations of on-set disputes and her relationship with the leading man. [Harry].
While the video surprised many, The Sun reported that the couple have known each other for a while.
Speaking to the publication, a source said: ‘Harry and Emily are enjoying meeting each other.
“Being filmed kissing in Tokyo and then having that footage shared with the world wasn’t what either of them expected, but they’re not holding anything back.
‘Harry and Emily have been knowing each other for some time. They spent some time together out of the public eye this year and just enjoy each other’s company when they can while Harry is on tour.
Harry is currently performing in Japan as part of his aptly named Love On Tour series of concerts around the world.
It was reported late last month that Harry had moved on from Olivia with someone else, though the mystery lady was not identified.
A source told the Mirror at that moment: ‘Harry is seeing someone. He’s doing everything he can to keep his identity a secret after the circus surrounding his relationship with Olivia.
‘But all his close circles know about the romance. Although it is early, things seem to be going well.
In recent months, Emily had been linked to serial dater Pete Davidson. She filed for divorce from her ex-husband, film producer Sebastian Bear-McClard, in September.
The married couple first separated in July amid allegations that Sebastian, 42, was a “serial cheater”.
Meanwhile, Harry and Olivia have broken up after finding out they have “different priorities that keep them apart.”
Olivia was last seen supporting Harry when she attended his concert on November 15 at the Kia Forum in Los Angeles, where she was accompanied by her two children.
In November, it was claimed that Olivia was ‘disappointed’ that her relationship with Harry Styles didn’t work out.