A dominatrix whose clients include doctors, lawyers and financial executives has revealed her craziest requests during her seven-year career.
Jennifer*, from London, first got a kick out of ‘bullying’ men when she was just 17 – and loved it when they would ‘compete for her attention’.
A few years later, at the age of 19, Jennifer entered into a long-term relationship with her partner – and the couple now have two boys and two young sons together.
But the now 31-year-old described her partner of 11 years as “vanilla” and said he didn’t like “kinky” sex or foreplay.
About five years into their relationship, she began living a double life as a dominatrix, secretly catering to the needs of powerful men.
Jennifer*, from London, first got a kick out of ‘bullying’ men when she was just 17 – and loved it when they would ‘compete for her attention’ (stock image)
Speaking to FEMAIL, Jennifer revealed some of the things her clients – who she meets on IllicitEncounters, a dating site for people in relationships – have been asking for.
The mother-of-two said she once nursed a man who had a ‘mummy kink’ and said they would play the role of his parents during sex.
She said, “I played with this guy for a few years. The act isn’t really what I find sexy, it’s the power. But at the same time I can acknowledge that it is very strange.
‘I think it’s a little easier for me to detach myself from the situation because I didn’t know his parents. To me, the problems he has were very separate.’
One of her other strange requests involved a man asking her to stage a robbery by kicking him in the testicles and then making off with the money he had just withdrawn from an ATM.
She also revealed that she has had clients who have a ‘fart fetish’; although she admitted: ‘I don’t often participate in that.’
She said penetrative sex doesn’t always happen with clients, who often come to her with other types of requests.
Jennifer, 31, once received money from a client just to consider talking to him.
The mother of two said she once nursed a man who had a ‘mummy kink’ and said they would play the role of his parents while they had sex (stock image)
Although she admits it’s not her ‘main job’, Jennifer says she can earn anywhere between £20 and £1,000 a night as a dominatrix (stock image)
Another asked her to buy used underwear on a second-hand website and a third wanted her to demand that he drink his own urine.
When asked why she became a dominatrix, Jennifer said: ‘[My] relationship is kind of boring, it’s very vanilla, it doesn’t meet my needs. I just see this as fulfilling the extra needs that I don’t get at home.’
‘My relationship with my partner has more or less come to an end, we are currently in the process of breaking up but he doesn’t want it to end.
‘He finds a lot of kink quite disgusting and doesn’t really like it. He would not be submissive.
‘I haven’t had sex with him in a few months. We’re trying to make last efforts to make it work, but it’s over. I don’t feel guilty.’
Jennifer – who runs her business both online and in person – has clients aged between 20 and 70, some of whom are married.
She added that there are people who have intense, strange fetishes “all over the place.”
Jennifer, 31, once got money from a client just to consider talking to him (stock image)
Although she admits it’s not her ‘main job’, Jennifer says she can earn anywhere between £20 and £1,000 a night as a dominatrix.
This extra income from her ‘side income’ ensures that Jennifer can treat herself to new clothes and nice perfumes and take her loved ones out for nice dinners.
Others have paid for Jennifer to get expensive treatments, such as Botox, and will send her money to treat themselves when she feels bad.
She said her partner doesn’t get suspicious because they have separate bank accounts and the money is usually deposited into her PayPal.
Jennifer said she usually goes to work when her children are at school and her partner is at work, and in the evenings after her family has gone to bed.
She told her parents about her second job as a dominatrix because they have an “open and honest relationship.”
‘My mother said I don’t agree with it as long as you have a partner at home, but [I’m okay] as long as you stay safe,” Jennifer said.
*Names have been changed