How to Know Who Really Is Your Friend: This is the easy way to find out – and the only deal breaker
- Women revealed that true friends will always be wary of those who hurt you
- It’s a simple test of loyalty and to know who really cares about you
Women reveal the one trait all true friends display – and how they can easily spot a false hookup.
Models and TikTok stars Sahar Dahi and Danisha Carter recently came together to expose the one “terrible” behavior common to most fake friends.
The women revealed that true friends will always be wary of people who wronged you in the past, even if you’ve since forgiven them.
If a friend doesn’t treat someone who hurts you like a black mark on their character, they probably don’t care about you.
People should always pay attention to how their friends treat the people who have harmed them.
Model and TikTok star Sahar Dahi recently got together to expose the one ‘terrible’ behavior most fake friends have in common
Sahar explained her theory in a video.
“If you ever want to see who your real friends are and who really loves you, see how they treat the people who hurt you,” she said.
‘Cause when my friends get hurt by someone, I despise it [the perpetrator].’
Sahar immediately demotes the attackers to “horrible people” who “didn’t deserve” her boyfriend in the first place.
“And even if my boyfriend is friends with them again, or if they’re good with them and everything is fine, I’m still tense.”
“If your friends aren’t like that towards the people who hurt you, they don’t care about you,” she revealed.
The woman also added, “When you really care about someone, your instinct is to dislike the people who hurt them.”
Danish Carter [pictured] agreed that friends should always be loyal to each other
Many agreed with Sahar’s statement and shared instances where their friends had disappointed them.
“You’re absolutely right about this – your friends should support you!”
“One of my best friends is best friends with the person who hurt me.”
“You are not loyal if you don’t hate the same people, even if they have done nothing to you.”
“My boyfriend literally goes to parties with the people who bully me.”
“I was harassed by someone in my group of friends and my other friend said he wasn’t comfortable rocking the boat and taking sides.”
But others weren’t so quick to pull the string.
“I respectfully disagree with this — I don’t care if my friends are friends with them, it’s not their drama, it’s mine,” said one woman.
“You can’t just drag your friends into your life, it creates an echo chamber.”
“This is a very backward way of thinking, you can’t dictate what someone else does.”
“No one owes you anything, at this rate you have no friends.”