Dating coach reveals 5 things people do that make them super attractive to others
A dating expert has revealed five things he thinks super attractive people do.
Jacob Lucas is a British coach who has used his hands-on methods to “help millions of people get the love life they’ve always wanted.”
He is the author of the guide Her Dating Coach, he works directly with clients and also shares dating content on TikTok with his 766,000 followers.
In a recent one video, he outlined habits or traits that he believes super attractive people exhibit, while explaining why this appeals to others. During the clip, titled 5 Secrets All Super Attractive People Do, he also offers advice on how others can exhibit this behavior as well.
Jacob says in the video, “I am a professional dating coach. And (here are) five secrets that all super attractive people do.
Author, social media creator and dating expert Jacob Lucas (pictured) has revealed five secrets of super attractive people
‘Number one: super attractive people make access to it exclusive. They don’t spend their time with just anyone.’
Explaining why this can be attractive to others, he says: ‘The more difficult someone is to access, the higher their social value is perceived by others.
“Remember that exclusivity is very attractive to most people because people want what they can’t have.”
Moving on to the next point, he says, “Number two (is that) super attractive people understand the art form of peacocking. Peacocking is basically making yourself stand out from the crowd.’
However, there are nuances, as Jacob explains. He says, “If you try too hard to peacock, you look desperate. If you don’t do a little, you’ll get lost in the crowd.’
He offers advice on how to incorporate a little peacocking into your demeanor and suggests “wearing something fashionable, but also a little different, so that people’s eyes are drawn to you.”
According to Jacob, his third point – which he says is ‘very important’ – is that ‘super attractive people link their name to an attractive role’.
He continues, “So if you have an attractive job or hobby, you should make that synonymous with your name.
Among the five points raised by Jacob (pictured) are having a high level of self-confidence (which is not the same as arrogance) and playing to their strengths
‘Suppose you are a yoga instructor, many people find that attractive. So you don’t want people to just know you as Sarah, you want people to know you as Sarah, a yoga instructor.”
While this may sound difficult, Jacob says, “Most people do something in their lives that others consider very attractive. All you have to do is figure out what it is and get people to associate your name with it.”
Moving on to the next point, the dating expert says, “Number four, super attractive people play to their strengths.
“So, for example, if you have a beautiful smile, smile every time you take a photo.
‘If you have beautiful eyes, wear makeup that accentuates them. If you have an attractive voice, send voice notes instead of text messages.”
The last point comes from an internal trait, according to Jacob, who says number five is that super attractive people have “unparalleled self-confidence that does not come from arrogance, but from a high level of confidence.”