Dating Coach Louanne Ward Shares The One Mistake Single Women Make With Men
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Dating Coach Names Big Mistake Single Women Make With Men: ‘This Is A Red Flag’
- Louanne Ward said that you shouldn’t want a man to just listen to problems, but to fix them.
- She said it’s a “massive red flag” if a man doesn’t offer to help with her problems.
- He previously shared the ‘beige flags’ including the confident personality.
A dating coach has revealed that the only mistake single women make is dumping a man because he wants to help fix their problems instead of just listening.
Relationship expert Louanne Ward, from Perth, said she thinks it’s a “big red flag” if a man doesn’t offer to help his girlfriend, wife or the woman he’s dating with their problems.
she said in a instagram video: ‘If you don’t offer to help with the small things, you definitely won’t offer to help with the big things.’
“If he doesn’t offer to help, that’s more of a red flag than the guy who says I’ve got you here, I’ve got your back.”
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A dating coach has revealed that the only mistake single women make is dumping a man because he wants to help fix their problems instead of just listening (Louanne Ward pictured)
Louanne said she finds it “confusing” that so many women think they want a man to just “listen” to them instead of “helping” them with the problems in their lives.
“I have a lot of women I talk to who say ‘when I tell a man about my problems, I don’t expect him to fix them, I just want him to listen,'” she said.
‘I’m going to question this a bit and ask where does this attitude come from?’
Louanne (pictured0) said she thinks it’s a ‘massive red flag’ if a man doesn’t offer to help his girlfriend, wife or the woman he’s dating with their problems
Louanne said that when you talk to a man and tell him about a problem you’re having, you should never view it “as a negative” if he offers to help.
“Men are actually programmed to want to fix the problem,” she said.
“If you call him and say ‘my car broke down and it’s dark and raining’, would you really want him to say ‘I’m sure you’ll figure it out, you’re a resourceful girl’.”
‘Or if you lost your bag and he didn’t offer to lend you some money, what kind of man is this?’
She said women should let any man in their lives help them with the little things, so they know they’ll help them when it comes to the big things, too.
She said women should let any man in their lives help them with the little things, so they know they’ll help them when it comes to the big things, too.
Hundreds of people who saw Louanne’s video were quick to praise her words, calling it “good advice.”
“Very true, I think it’s about communicating clearly when you just want to vent,” said one woman.
“Thanks for sharing,” added another.
Earlier, Louanne shared ‘beige flags’ which she called a ‘boring’ personality trait.
“If you’re beige, you’ve been labeled unexciting, boring, generic and uninspiring, which is in effect a red flag for today’s daters,” Louanne said.
For example, someone who is ‘beige’ often lacks communication skills, plays it safe and people likes often makes it hard to connect with someone.
‘Examples of being a ‘beige flag’ include obsessing over pineapple on pizza (because you think it makes you nervous), references to mainstream opinions where you feel indecisive, playing it safe by pleasing people, and basically having no traits. interesting personality traits (according to others),’ Louanne wrote.
This ‘unoriginal content’ is a mix of being ‘bland’ and ‘grossing’ your date.
“Beige flags are the combination of dating fatigue, unmet expectations, and yes, I hate to say it, but judgment,” Louanne continued.
“People are sick of ‘Going out on a date’ and no longer want to waste an evening sitting across from someone they aren’t compatible with. Which means people’s standards are going up.